Don’t lie.
All these options are dumb AF. You can be honest without being rude. Just say it was nice to meet you but I’m not really feeling like there’s chemistry between us. Good luck with your Tinder (or whatever app cause you’re clearly an app dater) search. Done. No need to say you’re not attracted, that’s just unnecessary.
Girl spotted
Fart and if he or she laughs, then it's meant to be
*some* guys take a really long time to act like themselves and not be so nervous. So Id go for a second date, ice is broken and maybe I can actually get to know him now.
It seems like your instincts are telling you no. Trust your instincts and move on.
And “you may not apply again ever”
My love story with my wife of 16 years turned out a lot like the book Pride & Prejudice: the spark of love snuck up on us slowly over the course of a year until we just burst. An instant connection is possible (I’ve had that with friends and past girlfriends) but they tend to burn out as quickly as they started. The advantage of this approach is that it builds until finally you get together in the end. It cements you closer and you’re less likely to leave. But it requires patience and may never materialize.
But it’s a different world now. One date of two hours of chatting determines the next move and what’s frustrating me is that most guys don’t even make the next move. They just ghost.
Maybe with a guy you don’t have any past history with, sure, but if you ask out a friend with whom you have a little chemistry, you might do better.
Del
Did you take the lighter for spark ?
jesus what kind of loser makes a full blown post about one date that didnt go perfect. no wonder there was no spark.
😂😂
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