Hello folks, I met this girl few months ago. Since then we really hit it off. We both have a great chemistry together. Couple weeks after meeting her I asked her relationship status because we were flirting and I wanted to ask her out. I am single and she said her relationship status is complicated, and that it'll require more time for her to tell me why its complicated. I am very understanding guy and agreed to it, and so didn't ask her out. Now, sometime ago she confessed to me that she is married with a kid, doesn't live with husband because of trust issues and that they'll probably get a divorce in future. My heart literally broke, even though we weren't and aren't dating. I couldn't concentrate on anything for couple of days. She said that I take time to think about if I want to be in contact with her, but it'll be sad for her if I decided not to. More details: This whole story only spans 3 months. She is in her mid twenties, even me. We're young 🤣. We were physically intimate with each other just once. I have never been married. I feel like I have got too "attached" to her due to the awesome bond between us. She is a catch, but so am I to her. I consider myself as an emotional guy, will this tale hurt me in future as well, no matter what decision I take? What should I do, any suggestions are welcome! This is a serious question, so lets keep the trolling to minimum. TC: 190k
TC or gtfo
Move on. Lots of baggage and there are plenty of fish in the sea without baggage.
Date for couple of months to see how you guys pair. Then if it goes well, marry her. If not, GTFO. And do this after she gets divorced. And also make sure the kid likes you. Else you are f***ed. Don’t just go and marry because you hit it off for few months.
I don’t see what the problem here is
That’s the problem. People can’t be happy with things they are getting easily. They want a problem in life
You understand right? what it takes to be able to say “found the person I really like to be married” ?? If you can say that about someone, don’t be stupid enough to lose them. Thank your stars, cherish them and make it work.. Goodluck.👍
Buy 1, get 2. Jk Lucky you, It is hard to find a person that has same chemistry and bond. Go for it! And congrats
Take it slow - with the marriage thing. she has a complex problem with the husband hanging around - don’t break ur achey breaky heart - have sex and see if she is still interested in a continued relationship Work with the situation with Hubby and kid It’s a package deal man. You won’t ever be alone - remember that. My advice have lots of sex and see how it still feels after a few months. Both can decide later ;) enjoy man
Is this a poem? I literally can’t tell. Clearly English isn’t his first language, but it could almost be read as a poem.
You got it man, English isn't my first language 😄
She is not a catch. She is the type to cheat after a marriage. Quit thinking with the smaller head and see clearly.
Well, technically she won't be called a cheater coz she hardly talks to her husband and they dont live together.
Run away. Far and fast. Just call it a lesson learned.