She is really all I could ever wish for in terms of personality and looks. She is very gentle, honest, straightforward, funny, smart, and totally crazy in some ways. Petite body which I really like, very fit, big eyes, big boobs (she had them done). Super nimble and feminine body language. Sexually she is all I could ask for. She likes being choked, slapped, and I can generally be very rough with her. She can literally take me down her throat. To me, she is a 10/10 and I REALLY like her. Obviously, her personality is the thing that I like the most - the rest is just an amazing bonus. A bit about me. I’ve always been very social, active dating. I’m a Technical Lead and a competitive fighter. The problem is that I’ve only had sex with her twice and both times we were both quite high. I get super nervous every time and just can’t. I don’t know if it’s because I like her so much that I’m putting too much pressure on myself or if it’s because I haven’t had sex with a white girl in 13 years. I’ve always had a thing for Latinas and Asians. I noticed this after dating a Swedish girl 13 years ago and even though I “could” have sex with her I never felt even the slightest excited about it. It was like my body just didn’t find it interesting. I know I’m coming off a bit shallow here talking so much about appearance but I can’t come up with any other reason. I’m normally a very sexual person :( We are both very communicative and she is super understanding and gentle about this whole thing. So I just don’t understand this at all. This is an anonymous forum and I’m simply asking for your experiences. Guys, have you ever meet a girl you like so much that it became a problem? Girls, have you meet a guy in this situation and how did you deal with it? I’ve generally been very stressed out lately because of my work and I’m moving to another country soon... Which means I have to part from her 😢 Yesterday she said that she never liked anyone like she likes me and I feel the same 😣😖☹️ Sorry for this weird post on Blind. Just thought if I write it off then it might help!
Let her read this post, talk, and have sex afterwards.
This is actually very good tip. Maybe I’ll do that! After I try the Viagra approach that someone else mentioned!
“I have problems getting it up while I’m high…” There’s unfortunately nothing you can do. Sounds like your sex life is completely shot, sorry
Well, we had sex when I WAS high. I have problems when I’m NOT high.
Be high all the time
Shallow
Subconciously there is some thing wrong. You are putting her on a pedestal. Too much pressure. Take it ez. Go slow
Thanks! I feel like she is my Queen. It has always been unusual for me to get feelings for a girl. I want to go slow but also feel stressed that I’m moving soon so I feel the urge to stress things :/ I’ll try to take a deep breath! I don’t even care about having sex I just want to hang out with her. Just don’t want her to get bored with me 😓😥😰
Again, u are thinking too much. Keep in mind, long term lot of things change. If you have kids, all these things change.. women body changes completely with age. Think about 10 or 20 yrs from now.. What you think now, doesnt matter. Relax and go with the flow. After marriage, women change.. be ready for chamge
I liked a girl so much I had performance anxiety at first too. Get some viagra and use it to have epic sex a few times. It will get your confidence back up and then you’ll no longer need it. If it still doesn’t work out after that please refer her to me and I’ll be happy to take over for you.
Thanks! I’ll try that!
You can’t help who you are, to put it simply; you like what you like. End of story. Women do this all the time to men and simply write off what would be perfect guys for them simply because the attraction just isn’t there. Don’t try and force it, you’ll only do more damage to the good thing you have going now. Besides that, long distance relationships RARELY, and I mean EXTREMELY RARELY work out. Just call it off now because it will only hurt that much more when it doesn’t work out later on down the road for you both.
I agree on the long distance. We decided to stay friends after we part and maybe we’ll cross paths again. I’m used to being in open relationships so the thought of her meeting someone else doesn’t really bother me. I just want to have as good time as possible while we’re together - but I guess that’s backfiring! Relax. Deep breaths. 👌
We need pics of her to appropriately gauge a proper response.
Within a few weeks you will try to have sex with her again. Your wet noodle will fail you and she will move on to someone more confident in being able to pound her on demand. Or to her dealer. Or both. Looking forward to your future posts whining about all that. 🍆
I’m used to being in open relationships. The thought of her fucking other people doesn’t bother me much. I just also want to fuck her - because I like her :D I hope she is having the orgasm of her life right now.
^^ Writing this out made me feel a surprising calmness. Thanks ❤️ You might have helped more than you realize!
TC?
I recently switched jobs so it’s going to be 160k. I probably focus too much on my fighting to match with you people on Blind.