Getting divorced. How do I find a good lawyer?
Longtime lurker here. Let me knock out the obligatory stuff first: yes I'm Indian, in the Bay area, TC is $250k.
I got married to my wife a couple of years ago ("Love" marriage not arranged). She's currently a student but we're roughly the same age. Things began to get really rocky over the last several months and in a fit of rage she said that she wanted a divorce. I had no heads up that she had such extreme feelings about our relationship so I was admittedly shocked and reeling from this. It turns out that she's moving pretty fast and is filing for divorce without trying out separation or counseling despite my recommendations to work things out.
She's playing dirty through her lawyer and laying claim to options I was rewarded at a job prior to Google (we were married during my last 2 months at my old job) and doing a bunch of extremely shady shit that I'd rather not talk about for fear of being dox'd. The lawyer I've currently got is a total rookie and I get the feeling I'm going to be taken to the cleaners.
How can I find the best lawyer possible? Any recommendations from personal experience?