Girl revealing her feelings first
I had been seeing a guy for sometime and slowly started developing feelings for him. One day unintentionally I ended up revealing that I like him ( I had no plans to do so but during our amazing date he asked and I confessed yes I like him) I told him I am serious and he said he is very attracted physically but still has not developed enough feelings and need some time to think about his feelings. Whatever time I spent I always could read some emotions from his end ... I didn’t contact him after that day . Since that day he is very distant, we both were out of town for extended time and he didn’t message the whole time either. I am very anxious now. What should I do ? I don’t want to come across as needy or desperate.
Initiate the conversation— it’s your turn now
If I were him, I'd get back to you quickly. He shouldn't leave you in a limbo. If you're attracted to him, but he is not (even if he says he is), he's not that much into you, or there is another person he likes more. Ask him casually once if he'd like to go out and if he's still uncertain, get out of there!
On your date have you guys decided to meet again in near future?
Play with his psychology sexually, tempting him but not giving in to his wants! 😉 Since he is already attracted it's the slight sexual play that's needed. Text him playfully and arrange meetings. If he doesn't agree to meeting after this then don't give a fuck.
It's because of cu*ts like you that dating is so utterly broken. Go play in traffic.
Lol I think you are missing what I am trying to say here. Attraction play is needed, how else would one date without being attracted? I am not saying send pics of your boobs, I am just talking about some psychological stimulation.
He sounds like a moron. Why do you like him?
You will find other morons, leave this one and move on
“ is very attracted physically but still has not developed enough feelings and need some time to think about his feelings” menspeak for “let’s just be friends with benefits”
Sadly this is likely the truth. He made his feelings known and even alluded to his ideal setup. It's on you to decide if you like FWB and accepting he likely won't actually have good feelings for you.
This 🙄
move on, as fast as possible
IMO -- the way the relationship starts is an indicator of how it'll play forward. Life isn't a game, neither should this be. If you were straight forward, assume he was too, that you're great and worthy of someone who'd jump at the chance to be with you, and move on (no matter how difficult that is).
Tc or GTFO?