If a random guy walks to you in a Cafe or when you are just walking on street: + Hey, My name is X. What’s your name? - Hi, I’m Y. +May I have your number? How would you react? 😀
At work? Lmao reported. Real life need more conversion
Just tried this 10 mins ago while running in SF. Going out tomorrow and the Y is a PM at FB . The direct approach works but I don’t know how often 😬
You'll need more than just your name to get a convo started. Comment on the weather, the type of coffee she just ordered, talk about the music or how the barista is awesome because they make the best cortados -- get them responding and use smiles, charm and confidence to keep the convo going. Then ask if they come there a lot with their boyfriend... Or...? And if they say no, no boyfriend, you ask to hang out. Invest the time and interest -- and show genuine interest without staring at their chest or saying stupid crap like "I love [race/ethnicity/physical attribute/stereotype] girls" -- and you might score a date.
Agreed! The more the better if possible. However, I found the direct approach successful in real life, however, I don’t know the rate of success on average 😀 I think this might be culture-related. Let’s see the numbers. I don’t give my number. I’ll take theirs can txt them 1-3 days later 😀
Yeah.. Ive made the mistake of giving my number to the lady first and asking her to call me. I mean it works sometimes but its kind of lame. If the lady is either open to meetup, she will give you her number or some other way of contact info...
This will work on single, very inexperienced women with low self esteem. Do you really want that?
I doubt you’re right. 😀 I think 1/2 are totally fine with that independent of their success as this approach highlights your confidence. I’ve met 2 attractive FANG girls in the last 2 years using this. And they were not inexperienced. Are you a girl? If so, let’s know why you think this is bad
You’re entitled to think whatever. Good luck with your experienced FANG “girls” bro.
Make sure there is positive eye contact before any approach.. 😉
Excellent point! 😀
🍿 So 1 in 3 women on this poll would just give out their phone number to a stranger? ... I mean if that's not just plain dumb...
I’ve experienced 1/2 in real life but my sample set has a selection bias. And this has selection bias too since tech people may be less social (on average).
Lol no..... lol just ask if she wants to get coffee then eventually you/she will ask for the phone number
Can't you be more direct and say something like "Hey, My name is X. Let's fuck?"
Dude you need better moves than that
For some reason, I’ve been successful with this simple opening line for years so that I have never questioned this approach :)) I was just curious how scalable this is. Is it a culture-related thing or it usually works. Let’s see
How many fake numbers did you get?