Guys: how many girls have you slept with before marriage

Facebook / Eng3uo6h5
Aug 6, 2018 45 Comments

Just curious

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  • Amazon thereyago
    TLDR: Let the slut shaming begin.

    I am a female, so I didn’t vote, but these ranges are uncharacteristically low. I don’t know a single person (male or female) in real life who waited until marriage. Almost everyone I know slept with quite a few more than 7 before marriage. I myself lost count of how many lovers I had before marriage as did my husband and all almost all of my friends.
    Aug 6, 201816
    • Amazon thereyago
      @snapchat - my husband’s number exceeds mine. Although we both lost count, we know our general ranges and his is 30-50% higher than mine.
      Aug 6, 2018
    • Cisco rkHq23
      I love slutty women tbh.
      Aug 6, 2018
    • Amazon thereyago
      I don’t know why anyone wouldn’t. Women are humans, too, and most humans like having sex. My husband and I slept together the night of our first date and our relationship is still idyllic after a decade.
      Aug 7, 2018
    • Facebook / Eng3uo6h5
      OP
      Can you share your number?
      Aug 7, 2018
    • Uber zzZzzo
      Selection bias
      Aug 7, 2018
    • Illumina User7493
      “We don’t see the world as it is, but as we are”. There’s not really any reason to put a lower number than is real on blind. There’s lots of reasons people raise the number when asked in person.
      Aug 7, 2018
    • Facebook / Eng3uo6h5
      OP
      @7493 yep I suspect those who slpet with 20+ could stay loyal. I have maybe more than 100 opportunities and chosen not to mess up (honestly now a bit regret but if I'm the kind of person who just fuck I dont think I can be loyal, also, isn't it embarrassing to constantly run into people you fucked?)
      Aug 7, 2018
    • Microsoft HINs46
      sampling bias
      Aug 19, 2018
    • Amazon thereyago
      Late to reply but if I had to guess my number, it would be in the 40s-50s. All of it before I married my husband at 25. I think my husband has slept with 80-100 women, but he also started quite a bit younger than me and also lost count long ago. This will probably not be believed, and I find it somewhat difficult to understand as well, but he actually had a difficult time finding a relationship, but obviously not a hard time finding women to sleep with. I guess it does make sense, though, when I consider my own promiscuity and the fact that I would have wanted to have actual relationships with fewer than 10 of them.
      Aug 26, 2018
    • Amazon thereyago
      @OP- Not everyone considers it a mistake to sleep with people. I’ve never cheated on anyone, so this has little if anything to do with staying ‘loyal’. I have never randomly run into someone I previously fucked. You think sleeping with 20+ people means that you run into each and every one of them constantly? Even if I assume the absolute ‘worst’ as you’d probably define it, we are talking less than 60 people. How high could the odds possibly be to run into them ‘constantly’ as you worded it? Factor in the reality that people move, myself included, and time changes you and it’s all but impossible for me to run into anyone I’ve slept with, recognize them for who they are and not just a familiar face in a sea of other familiar faces who I have not slept with, AND also feel embarrassed by it if the first two conditions somehow fall into place. I’ve been with my husband for nearly a decade and have a job and children to worry about. There’s no way I have the time or mental capacity to be embarrassed by randomly encountering someone I shared a good time with. I wouldn’t be embarrassed the next day and I sure as shit won’t be embarrassed 10-20 years later.
      Aug 26, 2018
  • Pivotal pivtl
    for the ones who selected 0, was it worth the wait?
    Aug 6, 20187
    • Amazon / Eng
      scriptkid

      AmazonEng

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      Apple
      scriptkidmore
      How would they know?
      Aug 6, 2018
    • TrueCar / Engexpbackoff
      If she's angelic, they'll probably know.
      Aug 6, 2018
    • Facebook Km3lfdx
      That’s a really bad metric
      Aug 7, 2018
    • TrueCar / Engexpbackoff
      An emotional comment. So, no comments.
      Aug 7, 2018
    • Indeed shusqvmkig
      Yes
      Aug 7, 2018
    • Google / MktgQuadLovin
      Unlikely. If you have no reference of comparison you wouldn’t have a frame of comparison. Also the person you marry is rarely the person with whom you have the best sex, there’s always that sultry bombshell who was a fling from the past. You know the no strings attached let’s bonk all night kind of girl.
      Aug 7, 2018
    • Facebook Jeef Besus
      Yes
      Aug 7, 2018
  • Amazon / Eng
    scriptkid

    AmazonEng

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    scriptkidmore
    Oh wow, poor guys. For someone marrying in their late 20s, the scale should be..
    0-3
    4-10
    11-20
    21-50
    51-Manwhore
    Aug 6, 20186
    • Google VsFX76
      Manwhore starts waaaay before 50 lmao
      Aug 7, 2018
    • Facebook / Eng3uo6h5
      OP
      20 - manhore
      Aug 7, 2018
    • Amazon Planck
      lol, I am sure as hell no player here and even I am in the 21-50 category (low end though)
      Aug 7, 2018
    • Microsoft / Engbjchif
      The ranges on the poll are very low. I'm thinking the OP is very inexperienced. Lol
      Aug 7, 2018
    • OpenTable Meliodas
      Seriously, poor straight people with no sexual experience, these numbers are low by gay standards.
      Aug 7, 2018
    • Microsoft maverickk
      I like how you draw the line at 50 lol
      Aug 7, 2018
  • Indeed shusqvmkig
    0=indian. Not being racist just talking from personal experience 😂
    Aug 7, 20183
    • Google / MktgQuadLovin
      What about Chinese, Arab, Catholic, Mormon?
      Aug 7, 2018
    • PayPal YangJin
      0=tech
      Aug 7, 2018
    • AppDynamics Tangos
      Not true - Indian in tech and count is 40 +/- by 2% .but once you get the rite girl that’s enough. For me it was . Settled with her n love it .
      Aug 7, 2018
  • LinkedIn Squall
    This is the tech industry. How is anyone surprised?
    Aug 6, 20180
  • Lyft d83jq
    No way thee numbers are real. 0?
    Aug 6, 20180
  • New
    fjTN53

    New

    BIO
    Looking for engineering leadership role
    fjTN53more
    200+ for me, married for 7 years and have been 💯% loyal
    Aug 7, 20181
    • Amazon / EngAm A Bot
      Barney Stinson spotted.
      Aug 7, 2018
  • Apple / Eng
    flounder.

    AppleEng

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    flounder.more
    ive slept with over 500 women and im not even joking. been a man whore since i was 18 and im 36 now
    Aug 7, 20182
    • New
      fjTN53

      New

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      Looking for engineering leadership role
      fjTN53more
      But you are not married so you don't count
      Aug 7, 2018
    • Procore / EngChrisrobin
      How many STDs have you had?
      Aug 9, 2018
  • Apple / EngJobsHand
    Jesus! These are some rookie numbers!!!
    Aug 7, 20180
  • New / ProductRed1
    Or people vote 0, if you are a straight female taking the survey? Lol
    Aug 7, 20180

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