Relationships

Have you ever been cheated upon by your partner?

Apple / EngLegislator
Dec 1

What did you do?

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  • New 5'6
    I cheated. I apologized. We gave it another shot. I cheated again, and again. We separated. I regret.
    Dec 17
    • Google Groogle
      You get caught very easily
      Dec 1
    • Juniper Pliny Jr.
      He was caught in front of his doorbell camera streamed live to his wife's phone as his naked butt hit the button.
      Dec 1
    • Microsoft Mr 🌏
      @5'6 now you deserve to be called dickhead
      Dec 1
    • New 5'6
      @microsoft I know. For this reason, I have refrained from relationships for a while. It hurts to see someone hurt/sad because of me. But after the relationship gets boring, I can't seem to control the attraction I develop outside, which leads to intimacy.
      Dec 1
    • RackWare Dreamlight
      Genuinely curious. What caused you to cheat?
      Dec 1
    • New 5'6
      I just mentioned that in my reply above. Relationships get boring after some time and the novelty of spending time with another person is fun.
      Dec 2
    • VMware BobbleHat
      Open marriage might be your answer. Just stop pretending like you are supposed to be exclusive.
      Dec 3
  • Lending Club Coolguy123
    I gave it a second chance and it ended badly
    Dec 14
    • Amazon abzicj76
      Same
      Dec 1
    • Juniper Pliny Jr.
      You can't change a tiger's stripes as they say.
      Dec 1
    • Lending Club Coolguy123
      When you are young and naive then you are more likely to take on people who are “projects” who aren’t deserving of it
      Dec 4
    • Amazon abzicj76
      Especially if you love them, you feel like if you could just fix that one flaw, the pay off will be huge. Very Hollywood 😂
      Dec 5
  • Google / EngrRPD43
    Open marriage FTW
    Dec 17
    • Juniper Pliny Jr.
      Ok. How long will that last before the jealousy hits to unattainable levels?
      Dec 1
    • Google / EngrRPD43
      I'm going on 13 years. I'll let you know 🙂
      Dec 1
    • Spotify iwik71
      Same here! Going on 11 years.
      Dec 1
    • Cisco / Data🇮🇳 best
      Their wife gets laid way more. Typical cucks
      Dec 2
    • Google / EngrRPD43
      I get laid more than my wife but it's not a competition 🤣
      Dec 2
    • Spotify iwik71
      lol I'm a lady and me and my husband get laid pretty equally
      Dec 2
    • OpenTable Meliodas
      23+ years.
      Dec 2
  • Amazon plbrandel
    She cheated I have her a chance. She cheated again and again. I divorced her. She has had nothing but failed relationships and now gets pissed when the guys she is with cheats on her. God how I love karma
    Dec 15
    • Bloomberg iVX372
      Sounds like an "ex" of mine. We were never exclusive, so technically she never cheated
      Dec 1
    • Wells Fargo qUyB01
      How did you find out?
      Dec 1
    • Bloomberg iVX372
      She was married when we started dating, but her husband had cheated on her bla bla bla

      Anyway I say your ex sounds like this girl because she was upset about all her failed relationships and that no guy seems to want to date her exclusively, yet she seems to be a serial cheater
      Dec 1
    • New 5'6
      I seem to be the person you both are talking about.
      Dec 1
    • Bloomberg iVX372
      Nah. She's 5'7"
      Dec 2
  • Cisco / Data🇮🇳 best
    Almost gave it a second chance but luckily my buddy redpilled me. Been hooking up with slurs ever since and living the good life.
    Dec 11
    • Spotify KXAo87
      Does your partner know you and your buddy are hooking up all the time? Some women are okay with that
      Dec 1
  • Be an adult. Don't fuck with people you love. How hard is that?
    Dec 14
    • New 5'6
      It isn't easy either. Relationships get boring after a while. No one's perfect and the other person attracts you because s/he seems perfect at first (just like your SO seemed perfect until the honeymoon phase ended).
      Dec 1
    • Spotify KXAo87
      5'6 you should be honest about what you need and not lie to your partner. If you need some outside sex, talk about it and figure out if its workable in a way that you and your partner can agree on and feel comfortable. Otherwise break up.
      Dec 1
    • New 5'6
      What about emotional cheating? My cheating didn't start with sex outside the relationship. It started with attraction, flirting, some connection, followed by intimacy. But I knew that attraction was only temporary.
      Dec 1
    • Cheating is usually the symptom, not the problem. Which is why appologizing after being caught is only the first step toward recovering the relationship. Stop there and the problem remains.
      Dec 2
  • Gusto plskillme
    Humans didn’t evolve to be monogamous
    Dec 13
    • Symantec / Eng0x80007005
      Monogamy doesn't come into the pic. It is about cheating. You can be poly no one stops you. As long as all parties involved are aware and agree to it, there is no cheating
      Dec 1
    • Gusto plskillme
      I’m not saying that because of this people can cheat after promising monogamy. But monogamy is the default assumption a lot of the time.

      Also, I’ve seen and heard of so many relationships ending because of a case of cheating. After having seen it a lot, it almost seems like the expected result of relationships. Over 50% of marriages end in divorce. Is tendency to cheat a feature, instead of a bug, of human sexuality?

      Another thing, it’s really interesting to me that one case of cheating often ruins an entire relationship. If you only cheat once over multiple years, weren’t you actually successfully monogamous for the great majority of the time?
      Dec 1
    • OpenTable Meliodas
      It’s about the trust and honesty, not the sex.
      Dec 2
  • Facebook / Eng5'6"Indian
    Never cheated (cuz I have nobody to cheat on or with).
    Dec 11
  • IBM / DatabbWI22
    I gave it a second chance, but it actually ended due to irreconcilable differences rather than another instance of cheating
    Dec 10
  • healthfinch bel
    Define cheating. Do you mean sex? Kissing?
    Dec 10
  • Citibank / Eng$$>RSU
    Never up on.
    Dec 10

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