Lower your standards?
Everyone i find here is either too hot or already committed
You need to up your game then. There are plenty of non verbal cues besides looks that women pick up on that can be improved. I would suggest reading a book like "Mate" to give you a solid baseline of where to start.
Increase ur TC
Overall good suggestions. But the dumbest as the way to find a girlfriend. OP, do you have any hobbies? Try to look though your interests. Also, you can try being brutally honest on the dating site - don't have Brad Pit's look, super awkward in social setting, BUT .. and list what you think you are good at (list even if you think it's weird. There is someone that will like it). Good luck!
With your how to find a girlfriend Mentality I sincerely hope you never find one. Finding companionship is two way street. Make yourself desirable. Workout, change your wardrobe, put some product in your hair. Go meet people outside your comfort zone and know them. So when you do find a woman you can talk to them, and eventually you ll find someone.
I thought you guys had your parents hook that up for you...
Indian parents help only with arranging a marriage.
My only thought is to work on the awkwardness. Dates are better and more effective when they're not awkward, and it's generally useful in life
Work on improving yourself
It's a worst place to seek relationship advise... a bunch to douchebags looking to troll.
Lol ❤️
Perhaps change your perspective. Having a girlfriend is not the end all. Find happiness in all your personal activities. Be adventurous. Find hobbies you enjoy that involve other people. Repeat. In doing the things you like to do you will exude confidence and happiness, this will attract an appropriate mate.
Move out of sf or sea and head to nyc
What if you’re American