So Im an intern and I really like one of the other interns. He's easy to get along and friendly with everyone in general. We talk to each other everyday at lunch and I kinda push to learn more about him. I don't know if he understands that I am interested in him and I can't tell if he likes me or not either. I honestly put way too much effort in the beginning to get to know him but now I toned it down because I can't tell if hez into me. What should I do? Should I just be friendly or tell him that I like him? P. S. We also go to the same university
How long is the internship? My bet is if you're talking to him every day at lunch he has the same feelings. Maybe just find out if he already has a girlfriend and if not go for it!
the internship is until December.. since we are all interns, we all usually eat together and go home together. He doesn't have a girlfriend for sure. Sometimes it's just us two and I try to get him open up about him and his background and all. The thing is he talks a lot about him when I ask but never bothers to ask about me.. this is why its confusing. I don't know if he is not interested in me or its just a typical engineering guy thing 😂
Definitely a typical engineering guy thing 😂 most of the engineers that I know their wife's/girlfriends had to force them into it 😂
The leg cross from basic instinct should do the trick...
loool now I gotta do that to know?
It only works if you are not wearing underwear and dress slightly provocatively
This is really just a test to see how much gender assumption Blind is capable of.
loool I ain't testing anything.. the gender assumption is correct in this situation so nothing to worry!
Keep doing what you do now and then ask him out when its your last day. That way if he is not interested things dont get awkward between you two. Btw men sometimes really dont pick up on the clues that interested women give off.
It's because we're demonized when wrong.
Mostly we pretend not to when not interested.
like I'm very friendly and extroverted too so he might think I'm just being me. But there are times I ask some personal questions or kinda push my limits or put more effort to get to know more about him. But it's honestly tiring to just put effort on my side and not see anything from his side. I feel like I'm being desperate. Then again as you said it could be a guy thing or in my case typical engineering guy thing. Also we both have one more semester of school left. We both are in engineering but not in the same class. So the chances of us meeting or talking are quite low after this internship. I'm just worried I'll make it really weird if we ever meet again if I ask him at the end of our internship.
If I had a time machine I'd go back in time and well I'd be the same as this guy. In fact I was this guy all along. But I can suggest one fix. It's called : <<drumroll>> friends. This is precisely what friends are for, the classic tie breakers. You ask them to drop more direct hints to the guy. In my case, a friend told me a girl was interested in me and I, well, sucked at taking hints. I was in fact not interested in the girl at all (not in that way). I let me friend know and to this day I'm friends with the girl - no hurt feelings. Another time I, well, again sucked. So another friend dropped hints and this time I really liked the girl too. We're happily seeing each other for over 7 years now. The lesser challenge for you is to find that trusted steward.
funny part is I have a steward already! that is how I find out all these personal things about him. We 3 sit together usually at lunch and naturally bring up things Im dying to know about him. But just like in your first case if he is not interested in me in that way.. I'm not too sure if we can be friends. Like I'm okay with it but guys are just weird sometimes in situations like this
On a date I had the girl I liked told me about where folks make out and came up right to me a few times and I still missed the signs so..
legendary
I was like, why is she telling me this stuff? Is she cold or something? Oh well I'm just gonna stand here.
Don't eat where you shit
Don't shit where you eat
Both are perfectly acceptable
If you feel strongly about him, talk to him. Be honest. And try your best to ensure things don’t get weird. And yes, things might still get weird. Or they might work out in your favor. You will never know until you try. You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take. Go for it!
true! I never asked anyone out ever before..from the sounds of it, he hasn't either.
Serious question: how would you rate your attractiveness from 1 to 10? How about him?
Go big or go home!
if I go big.. and it goes bad.. I have to face him for the rest of my internship.. could get awkward
Why go big when you can go home?