Is it really that hard for Indians to find dates?

Homeaway ppMg64
Feb 2 45 Comments

I keep hearing on this forum that it’s hard for Indians to find a date in the Bay Area and all.

Atleast in Austin, it doesn’t seem so bad. Does it have to do with how long you have been in the US or whether that you were born here?

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    • Capital One da2de2se
      Don’t be misguiding people. There are indeed two rules, but they are the following:
      1. Don’t do the needful - be original, plenty other folks do the needful
      2. Don’t revert back if rejected- move on
      Feb 2
    • Asurion doormat_
      Very very very sarcastic
      Feb 2
  • Apple bla$&
    Hmm. How the fu$k do you find a “American” girl when all you want to do is hand out with your Indian buddies, eat Indian food, watch Indian movies, talk in Hindi (or where ever the fuc$ u r from) ?
    Try assimilating in to the society, go volunteer.
    Feb 26
    • Microsoft Micr0s0ft
      What's wrong with this? They have to assimilate not Indians. This is not their country anymore. If they're unhappy with Indian food then can immigrate wherever they'd be happy.
      Feb 2
    • Amazon Jd8xye
      I think the post refers to finding a date, regardless of nationality.
      Feb 2
    • Amazon nilptr
      Slightly OT, but Apple hires the most blue-eyed, blonde white males (aka “Californians”) than any other company in the bay
      Feb 2
    • F5 Networks Op64em
      Not sure we can know that OP is one of the insular, not-gonna-assimilate types...
      Feb 3
    • Vertivco / Eng
      FastPapuan

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      Apple?
      Feb 3
    • Panasonic Avionics
      Tac0s

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      Umm, it is the Indians that keep infiltrating other countries @Microsoft. Sounds like a sore point for you.
      Feb 10
  • Snapchat mrjackson
    Indian here. I think culture is a challenge but nothing you can't work on. Just try to blend in and absorb some of the American culture to increase your chances. You don't have to be a Patriots fan or anything, but just be mindful about the norms

    Being in shape helps a lot, too
    Feb 23
    • Microsoft gfba68
      Being a Patriots fan is more likely to get you punched than laid most places.
      Feb 3
    • Intel intel
      New England and New Orleans being the exceptions
      Feb 3
    • Quora mDXn01
      You have no language barrier, not like Chinese. I don't understand how difference between Indian and American culture without language barriers. Just try no hard and you will find American culture is greatest in the world.
      Apr 9
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    • Apple TimCooked
      OP you should start writing for Cosmopolitan, seriously.
      Feb 2
    • Homeaway ppMg64
      OP
      That’s the plan when recession hits 😁
      Feb 2
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    • Facebook Cardi B
      Wtf. Reporting you ^
      Feb 2
  • Asurion doormat_
    Brown skin and hairy body. It’s hard with that in this country. I am Indian myself.
    Feb 22
    • Homeaway ppMg64
      OP
      I don’t think brown skin matter. It’s how fit you are under that skin is what matters.

      Regarding body hair, nothing a body groomer can’t take care of.

      Fact is, we can find plenty of reasons to justify our laziness
      Feb 2
    • New / Eng
      にわとり

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      It’s not hard at all. I am built larger than most ppl on average, but I lift to give my body more of a cut/strongman look. You have to be confident. If you act like a cuck, you will be treated like one.
      Feb 2
  • Nokia / ITPizdets
    Actually the amount of dates you get is inversely proportional to where you fall on the scale from a sales executive to a code monkey.
    Feb 21
    • Foursquare / Engakerka
      Also proportional to how much rainwater you can trap in 40 minutes
      Feb 4
  • Apple TimCooked
    Not sure what OP is talking about here. Indians don’t date - they have arranged marriages.
    Feb 21
    • Quora mDXn01
      People also need hookup
      Feb 2
  • Cisco Infensus
    Not if you're Aziz.
    Feb 21
    • Salesforce DWMa5ee
      Aziz is literally a 5' 6" indian, except he's funny and rich and famous. See where stand up comedy can get you gents? ;)
      Feb 20
  • Cisco Infensus
    ABCD women seem to fixated on white guys.
    Feb 25
    • Snapchat mrjackson
      What's ABCD?
      Feb 2
    • They looks so awesome
      Feb 2
    • Snapchat mrjackson
      Not sure about what is a b c d but cannot blame natural selection. Also, white men tend to earn more money, so...
      Feb 2
    • Vertivco / Eng
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      That is an objectively false statement.
      Feb 3
    • Panasonic Avionics
      Tac0s

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      Not ABCD, but White guys are 100x's better. Though, many of them do not want to get married into a crazy Indian family. Probably
      wise. :)
      Feb 10
  • Quora mDXn01
    Do u still run caste system in the US?
    Feb 25
    • Homeaway ppMg64
      OP
      🙄
      Feb 2
    • Google wuEm63
      Caste system is irrelevant in America because only high caste Indians have the money and opportunity to move here.
      Feb 2
    • Quora mDXn01
      No no no. Most here have long last name.
      Feb 2
    • Vertivco / Eng
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      What does a long surname mean?
      Feb 3
    • Quora mDXn01
      Mostly shorter surname indicate higher level
      Feb 3
  • Qualcomm qfDT63
    Austin has better scene ? hell no.. I stayed in Bay area and it was much better than Austin. It's full of weird girls
    Apr 40
  • Google IHeartKiz
    There are only 5-40% girls in most engineering colleges. Due to cultural changes, dating is very common and most girls find their own partners. The ones that dont eventually join work as single (0-5% single girls at work) and get a more sr bf within months. The same for those that come to US on H1B or F1 where the ratios are even more skewed. As you can imagine, the % of girls that are single when they land in a FANG/Blind-able jobs is miniscule.
    Feb 121
  • Adobe / Eng
    shanb

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    Keep a left Sucker
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    Buy lion dates
    Feb 20
  • Microsoft Micr0s0ft
    No problems. I can't even count all my partners
    Feb 20

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