Met her at the office party a year ago and we seemed to get along pretty well. We would usually run into each other at dinner almost every day in the office. She seemed pretty caring; for example she’d ask what I’m doing for the holidays, etc. One time she took a craft class and made me a coffee cup. Sometimes she even pinged me to go play in the game room. But recently she’s a bit distant. At dinner,she would sit at the individual table, facing in, as if to prevent anyone from joining. I’ve even noticed she sometimes plays the games without pinging me. (She always pinged me before!) We are in a big enough office (2000+) and in different buildings and teams so I don’t think “office romance” taboo is the issue. But I’m also pretty shy and not sure what to do. Was she ever interested? If so, why is she pulling back? Or was just being friendly and I’ve been misinterpreted the whole time?? Any take?
Did you do the needful?
Example?
Indian confirmed.
Whether she was interested as a friend or more, if you want to still hang out with her why don’t you ping and invite her?
Don’t shit where you eat.
Don’t use this stupid expression.
Girls are never interested, they're always just being friendly.
If you aren’t attractive enough, yeah.
Really? How to get them interested. I do unfortunately think you are correct though
All the acts of service she’s doing seems like she was really interested. Maybe she’s pulled back since she’s given up hope that something will happen? A year is a long time for a crush
Are you hot? If you are not then she was never interested.
This bullcrap is extremely annoying, the way that they treat us.
What? Is it a girl’s responsibility to date an ugly man?
Why not just ask her: Hey, is everything okay? And continue the conversation from there on what’s bothering her
Although the zero day is long gone, this might actually turn things into 🔥👉👌
Did you ever approach her throughout your friendship or did she do all the work? Maybe she did like you but thought you didn't feel the same way about her if you never initiate. Just ping her how she pinged you and ask her how she is and if everything is ok
Yeah I was thinking the same actually. OP go talk to her!
Female here; I do that all the time with many people (males and females). It’s simply as she wanted to make friend and not really interested in anything further
Can you use that friendship to rage it to the next level. I feel like it never works that way
An option: shes getting over a breakup?
How would I verify that? Just ask her?