The guy I’ve been seeing for the last couple of months just dumped me over text 😭😭😭 I thought I would feel angry, but I just feel empty and defeated. Maybe people here can help me get some perspective and stop feeling like shit
Leetcode! Also TC or GTFO
She already works at Google, no reason to leetcode too much.
Yeah. Only need to sacrifice one problem a day to the TC gods when at google.
I’m single too and happy , enjoying my life . Don’t worry so much about being dumped
It’s hard, it’s an ego blow but what a jerk this guy is. Therefore be happy you didn’t invest more time in him. There are better guys out that will treat you right, stay open for that one. It’s hard moving on but find a way....whatever it is, and get your brain focused on other things. His loss!
Go visit his best friend for a night.
Lmao, I never understood that type of revenge, why would he care if he was the one who broke up with me?
I heard it’s a russian thing
It sucks, hate to say this, but embrace the shitty feelings. Cry, complain, hang out with friends, do whatever you gotta do. If it’s your first time getting dumped, it’ll hit you harder than most so keep that in mind. It will get better in time and luckily it’s only a few months you have been dating so you haven’t invested much. Best perspective I can give is getting dumped WILL make you better at the end of it. It forces you to self examine yourself and you will probably find a perceived weakness that you will be hell bent on fixing (and you will just to show him). That ultimately will make you a better person and you will realize that life will have these shitty moments but the tenacity to power through it is something that’s gonna attract someone who is truly meant for you.
Relationship are an absolute waste of time..why can't we be mature like bonobos??.. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Lb5MwTIV0Wc&feature=share
Haha
Reality check on things that matter 1.) Health (mental+physical) 2. Money...you have these two..everything else finds its way to you!!
That guy was a jerk. I can stop making you feel like shit 😁, let me take you out for some coffee? In return you can give me a Google referral 😂
Enjoy the attention that the leetcoders of Blind will shower on you now. The guys here are always looking for a girl. And you work in Google!
Defeated? Are you kidding me!?! You literally are a winner, you won not being stuck with a jerk who prefers to hid behind his screen vs owning up.
Thank you!
You are lucky to be girl and working at great place. Its so easy for a girl to get a guy. You can also take break from work and not worry about money. If i was getting dumped i would be at your place than a guy flipping burger.
How do you know OP is a girl?
OP identifies as a helicopter