Kinda pissed so will keep it short. LDR for 1.5 years (she is European and I am in States). She goes to afterwork and other events. She met a guy who she danced with and he wanted to kiss but she said no. She sees guy again at another event yesterday and gets drunk. Takes Uber to his house and they sleep in bed and kiss for 5 minutes. She was not drunk enough to not remember and was pretty conscious. I warned her many times that guys are jerks and that she should not get drunk so frequently and every time she apologizes and says she didn’t mean to get drunk. Now she has been crying all day and confessed about this next morning etc and says she still loves me and said no to sex blah blah to the guy and that she was impaired blah blah. She says she is trying to move to US for me blah blah I have pretty much made up my mind to breakup. But there is a twang of regret as I really thought she was the one. Just want to hear some wise Blinders’ opinions. Is salvaging this relationship possible? TC: Heartbreaks and a lot of crap
She’s not the one. Sorry buddy.
I’m female and would tell you to break up with her. Something tells me this isn’t the first time she’s done this, but there’s no assurance she didn’t sleep with this guy, but I would bet she did - sorry. If you stay with her, can you forgive and trust her? Why do you think she’s the one? How much of the 1.5 years (of the duration of your relationship) have you actually been physically together?
Going to his home , then going inside home , then going on the bed , then kissing and maybe doing other things are several conscious decisions she made
👆🏻Exactly.
It's over dude. You are dealing with your emotions and trying to fix something she ruined, it's not worth it. Find a nice local girl and good luck in your next chapter
Move on. You'll find your "the one". Since this was not her first time, it won't be her last.
Lol kissed. She definitely fucked him
Monogamy is overrated. There are needs and long distance makes it hard. Anyway, if she did it once, it's going to happen again, at least till you guys are in a LDR.
Women have needs too. 😂
Oh god. How old are you kid? :-) You really think you will get a meaningful advice from blinders? Just delete the post and save yourself from trolling.
/thread also bonus extra for not troll the OP
Millions of women and you choose one in Europe? 😂 P.S. she fucked him
Touche
She confessed for the guilt but scaled back the full impact. She most probably did more than kiss in bed.