Losing Interest In Women
For the past few months I’ve been slowly losing interest in women. The main issue is that I’m in my 20s and all the girls my age have an overinflated ego because of all the validation they get from social media and online dating apps. This manifests through terrible personality traits, huge sense of entitlement and a lack of self awareness. At this point I’m planning on going monk mode and focusing on my health & maximizing TC. Anyone else in the same situation? TC: 135k (in LA)
Yeah same situation... my drive was so low I thought I was sick. Then another friend in his 20s mentioned he had the same problem. We are facked
It'll come around when you're in 30s. Just wait it out. What goes up ..must come down.
Perhaps you should consider moving.. as that seems like quite the outlier audience in LA. Just my two cents.
Lol and move to Bay area, where it's probably even worse.
Yup same here.Looking to move to Europe for a while to see how are things out there.
That’s a good idea, only concern is TC is severely impaired in Europe
Lol I’m so depressed at this point I’m ok with a TC cut.
Seen a lot of girls with over inflated ego but didn't give up still trying to find that one person.
Maybe it’s the type of women you’re attracted to
Same boat. Nothing you can do right now. Best option is to maximize TC. Once you’re older you can look for a younger girl that doesn’t live in a big city. City girls are for the most part very vapid and quite slutty. Which really sucks for everyone! It sucks for the men who have extra trouble finding high quality females, and it sucks even more for the women. The women end up wasting their youth sleeping around, and then one day they wake up and hit the wall — they realize they’ve become old. Then they settle for any schmuck that will take them... Which is completely suboptimal for everybody!
Damn you sound like a judgmental asshole. Let women sleep with whoever and however many people they want. If it was as easy for you to get laid, you’d be sleeping around all the time too. “Wasting their youth sleeping around”? You sound like a catch.
But I do let women sleep with whoever they want. And I do just so happen to be a handsome catch. I just also want a partner that values their time and youth (which is a way to say, valuing themselves as a person) as much as I would value them. For me it’s not about getting laid but finding an optimal life partner. If the goal were to just get laid, then I wouldn’t be complaining! This is an optimal situation for getting laid.
Follow the girl and she goes after money, follow the money and the girl will follow u
No. Sincerely, a woman.
It's a myth @medallia
Being a girl, this post and all the comments are very sad to read. Hope you guys meet someone who'd boost your interest back to the initial level.
Agreed it is very sad. I wish it were different, but men and women relations in America are just in a really poor state.
I guess I've been lucky. I do live in a bubble, but coming from Eastern Europe myself and living in Seattle area for around 8 years, I don't see a big difference. You'll find gold diggers and other sort of things in any place around the globe, it's just a matter of your skills to filter those out fast.
OP, are you a man or woman?
TC?