🤦🏻♂️ Why in world am I attracted to her... I'm of course a single male... thoughts of had she not have bf would have may be worked for me etc. keep coming... I find her perfect and i don't know if she loves her bf but she doesn't leave him... She is the one that I am able to connect to at deeper level.. She values me too.. The worst part is that I think that she would like me too, but she has high ethics that she won't leave bf just because she found someone better... She would marry him too... So I do think from love point of view we would be better. However from family, culture, background point of view they have everything same; so that is something that she considers, I don't know... Because she does not find it ethical to leave the bf, she sticks to the relationship even if it's not going as she would like.. who knows... Or, it might also be the case that grass looks greener on the other side. Just because we are only close friends, I find everything good about her. If we are like in a relationship, it might be different, i don't know... I know I am sounding like a jerk, but I am just talking about my feeling. I do want her to be happy... Those who have been in a kind of similar situation might understand the feeling better...
Bro you need to get some space away from her lol. Stop being obsessed. Learned it the hard way, trust me
She is the one that I am able to connect to at deeper level.. She values me too.. The worst part is that I think that she would like me too, but she has high ethics that she won't leave bf just because she found someone better... So many thoughts and find it difficult to let whatever is happening happen..
Agree. OP, move on.
The worst part is that I think that she would like me too, but she has high ethics that she won't leave bf just because she found someone better... So I do think from live point of view we would be better. However from family, culture, background point of view they have everything same; so that is something that she considers, I don't know...
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Some friendships develop into relationships. You're attracted to her and have known her a long time. It's good to be honest with yourself about your feelings. You can wait and see if it doesn't work out with this guy but it might be better to distance yourself a bit and date someone new.
Go to a conference or somewhere remote with her or a small group (probably from work) and make a move
Don't want to screw everything, we are going well. She didn't tell me about any problems that she is facing with her bf... It would only go south I think...
That’s good. She will tell relationship problems to someone she doesn’t consider a potential mate. I’d say there’s a very solid chance you can escape the friend zone if you escalate soon
Watch the film Stuber for some guidance
Tell her how you feel, but be prepared for her to say she doesn’t feel the same way, and then move on. It’s unlikely she feels the same way about you. If she did, it probably would be clear by now. But you will never know for sure until you’re honest with her. If she doesn’t feel the same way, then don’t be bitter or angry. Just accept it and move on. Time spent pining for someone that is ultimately unattainable is just time wasted.
Move on brother. Don’t be friend zoned
Don't lose a crush AND a friend, be respectful
A friend cannot be crush
Move on dude move on. Sorry i know this is not what you want to hear but you know this is the play
True love...
I don't know
Daffaaq!