My super feminist gf has been obsessed with the Kavanaugh hearings. She watches the hearing all day and even missed some work and general responsibilities because of it. She knows I’m in favor of kavanaugh. This isn’t because I’m sexist and I don’t believe the woman, I just don’t think there’s any evidence and you can’t base the entire country’s decisions on unsubstantiated accusations. But I’m not even passionate about it, I care about other things. My gf has literally been attacking me and searching for fights with me the past couple days. She asks me pointed questions, accuses me of “making her feel like I think she’s wrong” when I didn’t even say any of that kinda stuff. She said the kavanaugh hearings made her depressed the past couple days. Help a brother out. What do I do here? I honestly love my gf but idk if I can tolerate this type of behavior every time there’s a feminist uproar. I know this has been an emotional couple of days but that doesn’t excuse her taking it out on me when I’m just sitting on the couch trying to chill. This is not a joke. Help.
Dump her, she is being irrational
You are a fool . You value your opinion more or your girlfriend? All this is situational. Act mature and don’t argue with her. Many times people don’t realize they are thinking or doing wrong . But they realize later. Don’t fuel the fire . If you value her , don’t get into such arguments . In cases of debates like this, it can go on and on . What do you get out of it ? Only creates stress and anger. Just relax and don’t take sides in such controversial topics.
Moreover, try to understand why current events are affecting her in such a strong way and see if there are ways that you can support her during a tough emotional moment.
Honestly y’all are probably right. I’m not super passionate about this particular Supreme Court justice and should’ve probably just shut my mouth. I just like being honest and my honest opinion is he should be confirmed since there’s no evidence at all. But bad mistake I made with the gf tonight, I paid the price for it
are you in favor of kavanaugh or in favor of evidence ? i think the two are very different, and being able to walk that line is definitely tough. i don’t think there is hard evidence against him, but the fact that 1000 people from his old school signed an affidavit about his bad behavior i think at least makes me have doubt about his actions
I’m in favor of kavanaugh getting confirmed based on lack of evidence but my post was about how to handle the disagreement with my girlfriend more
Even if you don't believe the current accusations, why do you support him? What else do you know about him?
I don’t know shit about him! I don’t pretend to know, unlike others who think they know everything. Do you know every detail about the 8 other Supreme Court justices?
People on the left and right have been supporting proven murderers, rapists and other scum. What's wrong with supporting a person with no proven crimes (in the current environment)?
Sounds like your girlfriend is just looking for a fight. Probably not a good idea to stay in the relationship
I’m worried about this
“First time they fuss, I’m breezin’, Talkin’ ‘bout, ‘What’s the reasons?’ I’m a pimp in every sense of the word Bitch, trust and believe ‘em...” Leave her. Explore the moist corridors of billions of others (with consent, respectfully).
The correct answer is 'you are right babe' ; while you roll in your sweet Uber rsu.
Lmfao
This is a troll playing on people’s emotions. Next post!
This is real and my gf is in the other room crying right now. This one is real
Logic her into a corner and make it clear that she can feel right or wrong all she wants based on the arguments presented. Not your problem. Just, you know, phrase that better... OR, look at it this way. Whether being suspected of something is grounds for not confirming someone to a high level government post is ok is a matter of some very very dense constitutional law, which I'm 99% sure is something neither of you knows diddly banana about beyond your own opinions and what you remember from grade school. Why? Because constitutional law precedent is denser than even the preceeding sentence. Probably safe to say you're both unqualified to have conversations about the legal merits of an appointment to THE legal post in all the land. So you can ask her to drop it on those grounds.
I totally agree with you and I also think we are both just morons arguing about it for no fucking reason! That’s why I said I’m just tryina sit here and code tonight and I’m being assaulted for not hating kavanaugh
Next.