If you are a man in your 20’s and 30’s, do you secretly or openly, like dating/sleeping with older women and why? I am almost 50 and young guys chase me like crazy. Totally surprised by this but I like it! Is it weird?
I had dated older women and they were great. Less drama and more reasonable i guess.
I dated a 37 year old when I was 22. It was great, she knew exactly what she wanted in life, had been married (partially for citizenship reasons). Super excellent human, taught me plenty, and I definitely energized her. Met on an airplane!
Was she Asian?
I think that older women have a confidence and an “I don’t give a crap about what others think” attitude that younger women don’t have. Back when I was dating, a “5” or “6” who was smart, confident, with a good sense of humor and knew who she was and what she wanted and went after it... very hot. It didn’t matter if she was 10 years older.
I’m game. Are you in Seattle or Bay area?
Seattle and to be clear, I didn’t post to look for dates. Just curious about why/how this combination works so well. Interested in others’ experience. Men and women.
Also check for intimacy drives that may explain it - young men/ older women are on the similar plane ...so are older men/younger women
You sound hot and good for you to enjoy a younger stronger buck full of energy and enthusiasm.
I've always dated older ( get teased for updating ) but I don't like the drama that comes with women under 27/28. I have my shit together and want a partner with the same who knows how to communicate and build a relationship. I started dating a fantastic woman who was 31 when I was 20 which opened my eyes to how much more reasonable people could be out of school. Although that didn't work out because of kids timing I'm very happily dating someone 4 years older than me now and it's great!
to realize the step-mom son incest fantasy. 😉
There are so many dudes in Seattle that some of them are willing to date each other, let alone an older woman.
Is it because older women are way better in bed?
That too but secondary
I'm in a longterm relationship with an older woman (5+ years) The ability to have adult conversations was key. I did not seek her out because she was older, but after getting to know her I approached her romantically.
You are only as old as you look. I imagine you likely don’t look like you are 50.
No but I don’t look as young as the men who are pursuing. I always tell my age too and they aren’t put off by it.
Well everyone has a milf-like/mature fantasy