Older Women / Younger Men

Amazon / Other Lowdown
Mar 7, 2018 38 Comments

If you are a man in your 20’s and 30’s, do you secretly or openly, like dating/sleeping with older women and why? I am almost 50 and young guys chase me like crazy. Totally surprised by this but I like it! Is it weird?

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  • CME Group
    VJkH30

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    You sound hot and good for you to enjoy a younger stronger buck full of energy and enthusiasm.
    Mar 7, 2018 5
    • Uber / Eng Ydcg6
      Mar 7, 2018
    • Amazon m37uj8
      lmao
      Mar 7, 2018
    • CME Group
      VJkH30

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      VJkH30more
      I have a related story, at 21 dated 30, 31, 36 and 39, these womem jad real jobs, owned homes and taught me about pleasing a woman properly. made me a better husband later in life., Wonderfully times. Thank you for dating these dudes, they'll be better for it and hope you're enjoying. Best part abiut teaching loving is if a 21 yo gets it wrong, he can try again right away.
      Mar 7, 2018
    • CME Group
      VJkH30

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      Autocorrect, I don't ever write that poorly
      Mar 7, 2018
    • Amazon kqqr40
      Anytime a guy I am interested in tell me that he dated older women....I think to myself,oh thank god he will be great in bed!! Turns out true every-time.
      Mar 8, 2018
  • VMware / Ops F✖️
    There are so many dudes in Seattle that some of them are willing to date each other, let alone an older woman.
    Mar 7, 2018 0
  • Apple Bronze
    I dated a 37 year old when I was 22. It was great, she knew exactly what she wanted in life, had been married (partially for citizenship reasons). Super excellent human, taught me plenty, and I definitely energized her.

    Met on an airplane!
    Mar 7, 2018 2
    • SAP Ohfb
      Was she Asian?
      Mar 8, 2018
    • Amazon / Eng ama64
      I think that older women have a confidence and an “I don’t give a crap about what others think” attitude that younger women don’t have. Back when I was dating, a “5” or “6” who was smart, confident, with a good sense of humor and knew who she was and what she wanted and went after it... very hot. It didn’t matter if she was 10 years older.
      Mar 31, 2018
  • Intel tmrn
    I had dated older women and they were great. Less drama and more reasonable i guess.
    Mar 7, 2018 0
  • Uber / Eng Ydcg6
    You are only as old as you look. I imagine you likely don’t look like you are 50.
    Mar 7, 2018 2
    • Amazon / Other Lowdown
      OP
      No but I don’t look as young as the men who are pursuing. I always tell my age too and they aren’t put off by it.
      Mar 7, 2018
    • Amazon 123raj
      Well everyone has a milf-like/mature fantasy
      Mar 8, 2018
  • Deloitte / Other ParPaper
    Is it because older women are way better in bed?
    Mar 7, 2018 1
    • Microsoft / Product Cardamom
      That too but secondary
      Mar 7, 2018
  • Microsoft / Product Cardamom
    I've always dated older ( get teased for updating ) but I don't like the drama that comes with women under 27/28. I have my shit together and want a partner with the same who knows how to communicate and build a relationship.

    I started dating a fantastic woman who was 31 when I was 20 which opened my eyes to how much more reasonable people could be out of school. Although that didn't work out because of kids timing I'm very happily dating someone 4 years older than me now and it's great!
    Mar 7, 2018 0
  • New / Other
    Calnadian

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    Conversely, why do older women like dating younger men? Based on previous posts, is it bc women like teaching the young bucks all the bed tricks and ‘grooming’ them?
    Mar 8, 2018 4
    • VMware / Ops F✖️
      Because my cock isn't getting any harder with age?
      Mar 8, 2018
    • Return to Your Power 1username
      In my experience I had to overcome her objection of my age.

      I'd say shes attracted to me despite the age difference , not because of it
      Mar 8, 2018
    • SAP masq
      If I may, what was the age difference between you both, 1username?
      Mar 8, 2018
    • Deloitte / Other ParPaper
      So he can fix her iPhone and WiFi when they glitch...
      Mar 9, 2018
  • LinkedIn BestIn
    I’m game. Are you in Seattle or Bay area?
    Mar 7, 2018 2
    • Amazon / Other Lowdown
      OP
      Seattle and to be clear, I didn’t post to look for dates. Just curious about why/how this combination works so well. Interested in others’ experience. Men and women.
      Mar 7, 2018
    • Amazon 123raj
      Also check for intimacy drives that may explain it - young men/ older women are on the similar plane ...so are older men/younger women
      Mar 8, 2018
  • Cadence °
    Older ladies will do anything cause they're past the whole "oh no that's icky my body might *make a weird sound* if I do it in that position" nonsense.

    Plus you wake up to a hot breakfast and find that somehow she found time to wash and press your clothes for you. Walk of shame? More like walk of holy shit I just got laid and sent off with a bj and a full belly in clean pants!
    Mar 8, 2018 0
  • Return to Your Power 1username
    I'm in a longterm relationship with an older woman (5+ years)

    The ability to have adult conversations was key.

    I did not seek her out because she was older, but after getting to know her I approached her romantically.
    Mar 7, 2018 0
  • Facebook dXy349
    I expect confidence has something to do with it.

    I also notice that women above my age level dress quite well, a bit more sultry than younger girls.
    Mar 7, 2018 0
  • Credit Karma palto alto
    As a young man, how do I find older women to date?
    Mar 7, 2018 1
    • Amazon person1234
      Dating apps are probably the easiest, you can probably try going to “single professionals” style social events, they tend to have older women in my experience.
      Mar 7, 2018
  • SAP masq
    Thanks for posting, OP! Had a very similar Qs
    Mar 8, 2018 0
  • Juniper / Ops shitposter
    to realize the step-mom son incest fantasy. 😉
    Mar 7, 2018 0
  • Amazon wwqwwq
    When guys are young, they like mature woman, when guys get old, then they like young woman
    Mar 14, 2018 1
    • SAP masq
      And women? What about women? How do their preferences change (if they change at all)?
      Mar 15, 2018
  • Amazon person1234
    Currently dating a woman who is 3 years older. I definitely love her way better maturity/rationality compared to others I’ve dated (ranging from 0-3 years younger than me).
    Mar 7, 2018 1
    • New / Eng
      HurdDaGnus

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      When I was a lot younger, literally every girl I dated before I met my wife was "older" (all but one in the range of 6 months to 2 years) but that, or 3 years, is not really the same kind of difference unless you're not yet an adult. 15 and 18, sketchy (and illegal in most states); 21 and 24, NBD... 30 and 33... rounding error.

      The 26 year old I dated briefly when I had just turned 18 probably counts... although she got tired of dealing with my immaturity really quickly.
      May 16, 2018
  • Amazon locorocco
    God how I love older women. First of all, they look great when they take care of themselves, unlike many men who age so horribly. They don’t give a shit if you like them or not. They don’t obsess over their looks and take selfies all the time. They also do not freak out over everything. They’re too stable and confident and know you aren’t necessarily their whole world. It’s a beautiful combo.
    May 31 0
  • AMD
    Jab473

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    Depends on the age difference, but I imagine younger guys are more interested in sex than older guys? Also, younger guys probably have less baggage.
    Mar 9, 2018 0