I'm mid 20's, never really wanted relationship until now. I've been talking with this girl for a while and I want to ask her out but am scared haha, any advice/encouragement? (Besides be better looking/higher TC, thanks trolls) TC: 130k
Be better looking, higher TC
Oh okay, thanks Larry!
Worked for Thomas Middleditch
Never had a long term relationship?
Nah
Virgin?
Bruh I haven't even held a girl's hand...
😂. Will you please hold my ✋?
TC or GTFO on a date
Just bring it up while you're alone chatting with her and keep it casual, if she's into it then you will get a yes, if not then you can move on. Also make sure to define it's a date.
What if she says yes, then no I don’t have it in me to love anyone back, then maybe? What do you do then? True story
You mean like she commits to a yes but then flakes after saying yes? She should make the effort to reschedule, but you can try bringing it up too to plan for another day, if she keeps flaking/putting it off then she's not interested.
Yup you’re gonna get a talk with HR
She's not a coworker, that'd be a mess
Ask her out on blind
You need spend your time not thinking and commit yourself to doing it. Don’t rehearse or plan it out. It’s likely not to go where you want. Also, you need to have a who cares attitude, because others will come.
You’ll be fine dude. Just remember, she’s just a person and you don’t know if she’s the one for you. If she says no, that’s okay, it wasn’t for the best anyway and the right one is out there. Be cool and in control of your emotions.
I got this. Just do it. It only gets easier. You’ll regret not asking her out for a long time but the worst that happens if you do ask is you get rejected. That’s easier than regretting not doing it.