I’m a white male (immigrated from UK) in my early 30s dating a lot in the Bay Area. I mostly date from online apps (Tinder and Bumble) and am not having problems getting dates and getting laid. Over the past three years I went on dates with 50+ different women, and got laid from 20+ (before judging: I make it clear upfront that I’m in for the short term). But, it’s hilarious when I talk to the women and they tell me what the guys who they date do: it seems like men in the Bay Area are so hungry and desperate that they can’t wait to throw resources at these gals! Examples I’ve heard: - A guy proposed after a month of dating - A guy bought a car (Acura with fine trims) to a lady after dating for 6 months - A guy went out of his way organizing crazy expensive weekend getaway trips with his date every time I’m literally cheap as fuck and I barely pay for a drink and yet I still get action. All it takes is to make the woman feel comfortable around you. Lol what’s wrong with these guys?! TC: 400k
The English accent must help
As a girl it 100% makes a guy more attractive to most of us
This. He’s perceived as exotic. Goddamn women are stupid. Goddamn men are stupid. We’re all so fucking stupid.
Hahaha awesome!! Dude, don’t forget most of the guys in the bay area are tech geeks who’ve never seen a woman and are ready to marry the first one to drop her pants ;) Keep up the good game. I’m in a similar boat.
Which is worst, to be desperate, or to find satisfaction out of the desperateness of others?
It might even be its own form of desperateness in the form of validation 😶
It’s just to have a laugh together folks, I don’t mean any harm!
Seems like guys in the Bay Area really know how to treat a lady, amirite?
The problem is, a woman will appreciate it but will sense your desperation, will not stay with you just out of kindness and appreciation. No woman has ever stayed with a man because he bought her an Acura after 6 months lol!
zjDm22, nobody likes desperate moves dude. Valid for both genders.
What’s the point of this post? So you like to exaggerate and put other people down. Your Tinder dates are doing the same thing. Perfect match, really. Cool story.
Acura buyer spotted. Why so serious man, it’s Blind!
I’m a girl. Glad I swiped left on you so I didn’t get herpes.
You are from UK (whitest of the whites). That’s enough.
If you were a 5’6” Indian dude, I’d listen to your story.
A white guy with a British accent getting laid in the Bay Area? Not remotely surprising. You’ve got your little ego trip today. Move along.
Omg white privilege at its best.
You earn 400k and you barely pay for a drink? :/ Y U Greedy Bro ! (I get the expensive party part)
Yea man. Early retirement and financial freedom are my main goal.
This is the kind of guilt he doesn’t cave into. This guy fucks.