Stay with current GF or pursue true love? Honest question.
YOE - 5
Age - late 20's
Location - Seattle
The girl that I truly love lives in Italy. We've never properly dated due to distance, but we've gone one a couple of short trips together and it was amazing. She and I met traveling, and when we're together it's pretty explosive. We understand each other well and the sex is fantastic.
A few years ago I met my current girlfriend and we moved in together after a year. She is amazing and truly loves me. She is also smart, successful, good TC, and has a family that accepts me and is cool. However things have gotten super boring after living together, and she and I don't have the same passion as the Italian girl and me.
Deep down, I don't have the same feelings for my real-life gf as I do for the girl I love in Italy.
What do I do? Do I walk away from my amazing life in Seattle for a pipe-dream in Italy? We have a good life together here in Seattle, but I'm super bored and she doesn't excite me like the Italian girl. Seems like a huge risk. We have good TC and also REALLY good potential TC in the next 10 years. What if I walk away from my amazing life here and then it doesn't work out with the Italian girl I love.
Any advice would be awesome. My girlfriend is super cool and I feel bad for not being as attracted to her as another woman. She treats me so well, but I can't control my heart. Logically I should stay and enjoy my awesome life here, but on the other hand I'm only going to live once. Should I risk it all for un-fulfilled love?