My GF cheated on me and told me after feeling guilty. She had drinks with a friend one night and one thing led to another and they had sex. The next day she told me what happened and said she had no romantic feelings toward him and that they will no longer talk. To be honest, I would have never found out if she didn’t tell me. She says she still loves me. I know the right thing to do is to cut her off now. Before everyone jumps on the thread to say dump her, has there been any stories of staying together despite this? I would like to hear.
Once a cheater, always a cheater.
How long have you been together and what’s the likelihood this is going to be a long-term/marriage relationship? Is this something the two of you can get over and learn to trust again? Or are you always going to be worrying she’ll do it again, eating away at your feelings for her?
Do the right thing. Don't be needy. She is feasting on you. Try dumping her for few months to see if she is really sorry. Let this start over again after 6 months.
Literally the worst advice
alcohol doesnt change who you are, it just lowers your inhibitions. she already had thoughts of cheating before she was drunk. ditch her, she betrayed your trust
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Before agreeing to stay together, you should go on some dates first.
You straight people are hysterical. Who cares. There’s so much data/research that shows monogamy isn’t real. Over the course of a lifetime even “good marriages” have infidelities on both sides. The only thing you should really be focused on is building trust. She’s playing into that by telling you. You can either be truthful and build trust on how that feels. What you want. Etc. Or just move on. Maybe you can have awesome threesomes. Or go to swingers clubs. Or be open. Or just be happy and monogamous and in 20 years laugh about that one slip up that one time almost caused all of the rest of your life together to not happen. Either way should probably think about what you actually value and want. How you feels communicating with her about it. And ignore the TC GTFO / heteronormative ownership ish you’re going to get from the blind crowd. But also sorry. It still hurts to feel devalued and question that trust. It’s okay to sulk a bit. It’s also okay to break up.
I completely agree with you. But at the same time prior agreements should have been mad if both parties desire to sleep with others. And yes you're right, we've got to be more open. I personally don't believe in monogamy as well. Its an outdated arrangement.
I’m all for having that convo from the get go, but that is suppppppper rare in straight land. Sometimes accepted in gay world. Most of the time that convo is forced through a mistake or boredom.
No leave her. She doesn't respect you.
Always been perplexed when people say “one thing led to another”. I want blow by blow, damnit. Ask her to join this thread and elaborate on it.
She already made her decision which means she has to live with the consequences. If you let this slide, it can and will happen again. Don't be a cuck. Be a man. It would have been a different story if you guys agreed ahead of time to sleep with others.
What’s her phone number
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