How many tinder/cmb/bumble dates have you slept with? Also pls comment where do you guys usually hook-up? Your place or their place or some place like a hotel?
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- New / Eng XorgatronI have met four people from dating apps and hooked up with two of them. I tend to screen them early and only go for people I actually find interesting enough to want to see again/at least be friends with, not really into one night stands. So far it's worked out well in terms of the quality of people I've met. As for where - my place.
- Microsoft hsowhoI'd say success rate for me is like 30% after we start chatting. Which looks low, but there's tons of people in there. Just have a simple normal night out, don't be a creep and you'll be good to go. Also, maybe split bills if they're not interested, if you aren't getting any, why would they :)
- Lost count. Went though a few years of serial dating. It’s like sales funnel or recruiting. You need to match with a large number, chat with who will reply, then meet in person, then some will convert. It’s pretty easy to do 2-3 dates a week and if you are putting those numbers up you will meet people who like you.
- Message people asking something about their photos or interests listed. Doesn’t really matter. Just shows you’re a human being not a weirdo. People won’t chat with you because you are so interesting or random. They chat because they want to have sex with someone they like.
That’s the secret. Other people want to make a connection and want intimacy (emotional, physical, both) just like you do. But you have to make it past all the people who aren’t interested (not using the app seriously or aren’t interested in you).
Don’t get offended, just move onto the next person.