Have a date tonight but I’m thinking of cancelling on him. It’s only a second date but he made a comment about wanting me to invite him over. I totally lost interest since it seems like he’s looking for a hook up. Had our date a few days ago. We kept in touch via text. We didn’t really have much common interest but I was thinking to give it some time to see if there’s anything there. Him.... do you want to get together Sunday? Me ... no response (not sure what my schedule is, have already another date lined up) 2 days later no texts between us (I forgot to reply, my bad) no flirting going on either Him: how about Friday? Me: sure, I’ll be driving back Friday to the South Bay so will be free later. Do you want to get drinks? Him: Yeah, or you could invite me over and we can have some wine :) Me: Nice try! 🤣 Him: ? Either he’s playing dumb or he can not communicate properly. Who says “?” When someone tries to call you out on bad behavior. The first date is a coffee date and seriously he hasn’t made any effort. He wants to be invited over for wine on second date? WTF! Are guys like this these days? He’s not a bad looking guy - but I’m so turned off at this point that I just feel like cancelling. This makes me feel like he’s just looking for a booty call so I’m crossing him off my list.
Cool story
Riveting
Cancel and move on. Just saying, it’s your prerogative but you don’t have to demonize the guy if he’s in it to hook up. May not be your thing and you found it out with his behavior. Cut him off
Waiting for episode 2. Grabbing popcorn.
Suspense...
🍿 plot twist: it’s the right hand talking to the left hand.
This is the most useless post I've read on Blind
Thanks. Isn’t that what blind is for? You’re welcome
Blind wasn’t made to justify your paranoia of men.
Cancel. He made it clear what he is looking for and it is clear that you are not looking for the same thing.
Ideal blind story would be you getting turned off by his TC or him not working in a "prestige" company or something like that.
I would be turned off if he works for a prestige company and if that prestige alone grants him the right to ask for a date this way.
TC please
Ask his TC. Then update the post with his TC and your TC. Then we can give an informed opinion.
Best response on thread
❤️ good advice. I’ll tell him I’ll need to know his TC so I can make an informed decision whether I should cancel the date
Cancel, follow your intuition.
There are a lot of guys on Blind who have no game and trying to attack me for wanting to cancel. But even my close guy friends are also telling me to stay away from this guy when I showed them the screenshot of the text.
If you're going to say that every guy who doesn't agree with you here has bad game and that you're in the right, why the fuck did you even post this?