Like always, Wife gets angry, Says extreme things like unhappy in marriage and all, argues with mother in law (culprit according to wife) and then after 3 days of awkward silence in the house asks "what do you want from me?" TC: Married for 3 years, no kids.
Have you thought about why she's unhappy?
Do you guys actually address your issues or just passively aggressively deal with each other for weeks at a time until it leads to a full on shouting match over why there are dishes in the sink?
We don't wait for weeks to shoot at each other.... We do it right away... Within the first how or so we start fighting 🤣
She’s setting herself up to divorce you and take as much as she can.
Don't reply negatively to this question. The expected answer from you is " nothing" and it will fire up the passive aggressive reaction. Instead reply honestly. For example if I was in such situation, I'd reply something like: " I'm unhappy we wasted three days of our life on this, and wish we could deal with it faster. From you I just need a bit of patience and time to wrap this up, so we can move on and do something fun".
Have you guys heard of divorce? And if bet my money that OP is Indian. Indian culture is quite shallow and such issues are common
stfu you are shallow.
Indeed, he is
Why is your wife getting angry?
Tell her exactly what you want. Don't give some vague bullshit answer like eternal happiness. Give action oriented answers. She's looking for leadership and you're not stepping up. 3 days off silence? You're not in high school, you won't ignore your manager at work for 3 days so why do that at home? You seriously need to look inwards, you're a big part of the problem.
1. Move out of your parents. 2. Talk and explain what do your think and how do you feel about the situation openly. Listen and understand her thoughts. It becomes easier to act properly after that. 3: If you cannot find consensus, let her decide if she wants to be with you. If she doesn’t, you can still decide to come together later or find people that can make you happier than you are now.
What do you want?
Eternal peace and happiness. That's too much I guess.
It’s not too much. You’re empowered to make your own decision. The thing is no one here knows the situation enough to even comment on it but I assume you only wanted to vent it out