My wife and I dated for about 6 years. Everything was great back then. After that we lived away from each other for two years. We were still in a relationship during that time. We survived and decided to get married and did. Soon after marriage, physically things changed drastically. After almost 3 years into marriage, even though emotionally things are okay, physically not so much. We rarely have sex, like once in 2-3 months and that too when I constantly insist on it for months. Before marriage, we used to have sex like almost everyday. Our physical compatibility was one of many things I liked about us and made me feel we should get married. I love her but I’m unhappy. She’s great otherwise and very caring but I feel I cant live like this. We casually discussed this issue multiple times, and she says with age sex desire goes down. She’s just 31 and I’m 30! I haven’t seen any decline in my sexual desire so far. If you are thinking she might not be showing interest because of my looks, may be. But I’m a decent looking guy and I stay shredded with 6 packs abs year round. I compete in bodybuilding shows as a hobby and have been consistently hitting gym for over 10 years. I manage to get compliments from girls from time to time. I always had been honest with her, and never cheated. So, I’m not sure what can I do in this situation. I’m feeling totally lost. Have any of you experienced something similar? I need some advise. I have never talked about it to anyone else other than my wife. Thanks!
Marriage counseling and find ways to spice things up occasionally
At age 31 her sex drive should actually be through the roof. The older women get, the more hormones kick in. She either has a physical/chemical imbalance.......or she just isn't into you anymore.
Low T and low TC
Agree with this. When was the last time you complimented/ thanked her for things she does. Pay attention to the details. Ask how was her day and listen. Cook dinner for her, do a candle light at home. Marriage is hard work.
Oh really ?? Gtfo. you can get may be a one night of sex doing all that and it would be as usual later
May be she is cheating on you ??
OP you'd be surprised how common this issue is for couples. Physical needs are pretty important in a happy marriage. You guys should seriously consider seeing counselors
Okay so you have a normal marriage
Maybe she’s unhappy with your “size” or your TC?