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What to talk about with American girls?

Facebook kuzzz
Jan 30

I get matches on tinder usually from girls around 20-24 but have no idea what to talk about with them (I’m in my late 20s, recently moved from Europe). Most of them are hella cliche with “love travelling, good food, good vibes, I swiped right for you dog, etc.” which is very off putting. Do they all care only about Instagram and college life?

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  • Amazon / Eng
    onMyWay

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    onMyWaymore
    You’ll soon realize that the women (and men for that matter) in that age range on tinder are dumber than a box of rocks here in the US.
    Jan 301
    • Groupon cosley
      Emphasize "on Tinder". You may want to reconsider being on Tinder if intelligence is important to you.
      Jan 31
  • Oracle / Eng
    not_larry

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    not_larrymore
    Wake up bhai.
    Jan 303
    • Facebook kuzzz
      OP
      Found an incel
      Jan 30
    • Activision Blizzard others
      Lulz
      Jan 30
    • Activision Blizzard others
      @Op

      Your the one asking about talking points on Blind ur the incel
      Jan 30
  • Intel intel
    A decent amount of the attractive ones fall under the “basics” category, and are very into insta/college etc. They’d probably be down to go out get drinks, but BRUNCH is the real panty dropper
    Jan 303
    • Applied Material gjfv
      Brunch is a panty dropper ? Why and how ?
      Jan 31
    • Intel intel
      They get to Instagram their avocado toast and drink bottomless mimosas
      Jan 31
    • Tinder uNbC21
      This guy fucks
      Jan 31
  • Cisco ChuckRobbi
    Stick to dumb basics. Talk about her clothes, shoes, concerts, pop stars, TV shows and everything boring. Talk about these as if knowing this is like the only thing out there.

    Tell her, "Did you hear Bruno Mars is thinking of sex change?"

    "What? That's crazy"

    "OMG, you don't know that. Hiding under books too much, nerd"

    You get the point. American girls are the most boring in the world and they like guys who elevate boringness to the most important thing in life
    Jan 316
    • Apple 88812122
      F**k lol, any American woman want to comment?
      Jan 31
    • Apple ///
      @88812122 don’t need a comment, this is a fact.
      Jan 31
    • Groupon cosley
      This is not a fact. Maybe for the ones who want a sugar daddy. There are hot smart women in the us, they generally aren't dating tech nerds.
      Jan 31
    • Apple ///
      @cosley, didn’t mean every woman in the US, that’s a very gross overstatement. In my experience this usually is true for the people I’ve been with. Level headed small talk works really well for me.

      Also, you don’t need to take a sugar daddy approach to ever get a date, shits wack.
      Jan 31
    • T-Mobile r5k2jda4
      Meet a real church girl for depth (only if you are a church boy though - gotta be genuine)
      Jan 31
    • Amazon JSnowflake
      Most of the women I have seriously dated have been Ivy League or top-20 University grads. I seem to gravitate toward lawyers and women who work in finance or tech. They are generally able to have real conversations. I would not be able to have the conversations described above without vomiting, but have been quite successful with real women.
      Jan 31
  • TrueCar pkoy
    Beer. BBQ. Football. American bald headed eagles.
    Jan 301
    • Tableau krxi15
      You forgot guns and muscle cars
      Jan 31
  • Google / Other
    snidely

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    George Orwell's role in the Spanish civil war is my opener, just to break the ice
    Jan 310
  • Amazon JSnowflake
    Get off Tinder and go to Bumble, Coffee Meets Bagel and The League. Don't aim for 21 year olds when you are 29 - the life experience gap is just huge and you will likely not connect with them. And then learn to swipe left on every single profile that talks about how they love travel. Nothing wrong with traveling of course, but it is pretty much always a proxy for how uninteresting they are in every meaningful way. This assumes you are looking to date, not just have sex, in which case, as you were with the dumb chicks on Tinder.
    Jan 310
  • Microsoft PMM’d
    OP must be German

    North American culture places value on starting all interpersonal relationships (not just romantic) with plenty of small talk. It’s the game, play it and see how things proceed. If you find the good one, she’ll be able to have more meaningful conversations with you after warming up :)

    Also, keep in mind that the tinder experience “rewards” boys and girls who post “basic” things in their bio. It’s just the norm...
    Jan 311
    • Intel intel
      Yeah casting a wide net
      Jan 31
  • Airo Health eooB85
    If talk is what you want to do, not sure why you’re on tinder
    Jan 300
  • StubHub Sabrina👻
    @Op Girls on Tinder are not there to talk .
    Jan 310
  • Cognizant APIPM
    Talk about Trump. Girls like comedy😜
    Jan 301
    • Amazon / Eng
      onMyWay

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      onMyWaymore
      You see his “we need some good old fashion global warming!” tweets? LOL
      Jan 30
  • Bank of America Quackers
    Food.
    Jan 310
  • Juniper ㄴㅇㄴ
    Kardashians.
    Jan 300
  • Microsoft DangerRngr
    TC or swiped left!
    Jan 310
  • Microsoft / Eng😈 Mornin⭐
    Beer.
    Jan 310
  • Amazon Deedadoo
    Yes
    Jan 310
  • Facebook 0a00h
    TC
    Jan 300

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