When did you know it was time for divorce?
Wife and I are in late 20s. Married for 7 years. No kids just cats 😂 she is a pothead making $15/hr and is a victim of everything. I dont see us raising kids together How do you know when it’s dead? TC 180k
Sounds like the writing is on the wall?
Best to leave before kids
When I was getting married. And the priest said "speak now or forever hold the silence" They burst through the door. I knew I had to divorce them before getting into something new.
Hahaha this took me a while
So she doesn't deserve to be your wife because she earns $15/hour? Well, you guys should have divorced long ago, she wasted 7 years with you.
Did you conveniently miss the "pothead" part?
Or the victim of everything part?
Soon if you are in a community property state.
I feel like holding how much she makes against her is prolly not the way to determine if it’s time for divorce. But the good thing is, her TC will be $90K a year once you call for a divorce. Oof
When husband’s TC = 180K and wife is making 15 an hour, even the cats may ask you two to separate. On a much serious note, don’t take an impulsive decision based on the money context. In a few years from now, you will be quite stable and you may not chase the idea of money anymore. Will you miss her then?
I’d say this - some people grow up.
OP already called out her being a pothead, which to me means addicted and overdoing it. I'd say that it's time.
Amazing to see how people view a spouse's earning potential as a reason to get divorced
did you conveniently miss the pothead part?
You already know