Been seeing a man 1-2x a week and on date 6. I highly doubt they’re seeing anyone else from what they’ve said and how they’ve behaved and so we’ve spent the night together. How do I progress the relationship forward? I would like it to become serious.
Where do u meet these folks 😊
Do the needful. Spark joy.
You ask about what they think about being in a relationship. I typically wait until they ask to be exclusive. I feel like guys want to think they’re getting a good deal, and when they’re pressured to be in a relationship, it takes away the attraction. But you should talk about it. If he says he’s not ready then you should be ready to lower his ranking in your life. Continue to look for guys who are more available. The minute you lower him, he’s going to feel it. If he likes you he’s going to work harder for you. If not, then you get your answer.
y do women become serious with guy who doesnt ask for the needful and vice versa?
1. Tell him you want it to become serious. 2. Watch him run.
It is only serious after you merge TCs to make the ultimate TC.
Gotta resolve all the conflicts while merging
Can’t you just ask him over dinner? Hey, what do you think about being exclusive? I like you a lot!
Rephrase :Hey what do you think about being exclusive?This guy said he likes me a lot
Just sit down with him and say “Hey I really like you, I’d like to be exclusive and for you to be my boyfriend.” He will either agree or say he isn’t ready for that yet. Then you will continue living your life like a normal adult.
They??
OP didn't say anything about being exclusive herself, so it might be one too many relationship.
+1 this, I’m confused too. Why is OP using the plural pronoun, or is if the gender neutral “they” ? OP please clarify