I bet there are few thousands of them here . Very few on the matrimony websites , rarely to be seen on dating apps . On the other side , tons of guys almost on all dating apps & matrimony sites . I've been on dates with non Indian women and I realized it's way more practical to be married to an Indian women for several reasons - the most important being the timeline (looking at the next 6 months -1 year). Any Indian women here care to share ? PS: unfortunately in my thirties (30-35) so don't have a lot of time to date & be in a relationship before getting married so non Indian women wouldn't work for me
network in your cultural community. opportunities will come forward.
What's a Desi woman?
Thank you. I'm not Indian go figure so I don't know the term :)))
Why only Indian ? Why only women ?
Op is either straight man or lesbian woman..thats why. Op already mentioned reason for desi over others.
Good point. OP looks sexist.
Desi women in seattle are more interested in white guys. Just like desi men are in white women.
Try Chinese. They have similar family values and larger supply.
The three Chinese / Taiwanese women I reached out stepped back when I said about long term. They loved hanging out with me, find me witty, smart, intellectual, good in the kitchen and good at work. So they find it worth hanging out with this brown guy. But when it comes to choosing a BF or partner it has to be a white guy. One woman was blunt enough to say that she finds white guys to of superior race. I felt really confused at that time. I was like seriously? Whites are superior and I am not? Or may be am just superior enough to be a good friend but my superiority level doesn’t meets the bar of being a life partner? Lol.. yo be honest, for a few days I was depressed thinking how to interpret that
I think it’s Normal for someone to freak out on hearing long term or settling in life. You should enjoy the time n find someone mutually interested to explore that questions answer. Jus my thought
I suspect that most single desi girls here are already being pursued (either by other guys, or fixed up by their parents) to get married the traditional way (they have a BF or fiancé already they should marry; or by their parents who are sending prospective boys their way via the arranged marriage route). I know a couple single desi girls, who are pretty committed in their relationship. Employed desi girls are less likely to be available at this point. These invisible available desi girls in US are all busy studying, doing their Masters or Bachelors. So my hypothesis is that UW maybe your best bet. Find desi social events and go there. Go to the local Holi, Dandiya, Diwali events. There are multiple such events held in the eastside or Seattle. OP Let us know if you get a chance to test this hypothesis. Very curious about your insights and results. Just don’t get beat up by their boyfriends or fiancés 😀
It really is.
Jeez grammar police is watching. Fixed
The ratio of single, good looking and available to date working desi girls to working desi men in USA is like 1 to 50. You have 2% chance. But the women have 50x options. So it is extremely unlikely that you would even have a shot here. But desi working in America grooms are highly desired by Indian women in India. So that is your best bet
First of all, how practical is it to be working in Seattle and finding/dating someone half way across the world? Secondly, India has more than 1B people, roughly half are women, at least a 100M are probably single. You're off by a few orders of magnitude there mate. TL;DR- Keep your useless/dumb replies to yourself.
India has a shortage of women. Some states has huge gender imbalance. Look up "India female infanticide" OP is trying to avoid competition by not going to India, but Seattle and SF are both shitty places for a guy