So, I had a co-worker (in sister team) while at Amazon. She (Indian - FYI, don't ask me again in comments) was hot and tall. I had a crush on her and felt that she did too (initially). But, she always replied rudely to me and was always mean etc. Well, recently I moved to Google and she moved to Bay area too (not Google) last month. I have tinder gold and saw she swiped right. Wtf? What the heck is this? Was she playing hard to get or something?
She is gonna lure you and then destroy you.
Go have a date. Maybe she just didn't want to date you while at the same office!
This
I would go on a date and see how things go, it's better than having regrets.
She will meditate and then destroy you
Okay so this is based on personal experience. This one time i had a crush on this girl at work in a similar situation except she was short, not tall. When I moved for work she ended up also moving to a nearby city. Well one day I was out doing groceries and right as I was grabbing milk from the back of the store, she walks up and says hi, much more politely than she used to. Caught off guard, i didn't even notice i had grabbed coconut milk instead of almond, and didn't realize until I got all the way home.
Do the needful.
She’s not playing hard to get. She’s probably not an open person. If she’s mean to you in person, just move on. When a woman isn’t nice to you, it means she‘s not into you. It’s not some code for “keep trying”. If she is that type that plays those games, do you really want that drama in your life?
This is true. Take her attitude when she was in public with you at face value, she acted like she didn’t like you, she still doesn’t. Women swipe right on SO many guys on tinder, you are not special to her. A woman doesn’t just act mean if she liked someone. That only happened in kindergarten.
Go for it! Ask her out. Doesn’t hurt to try.
Just smash it, file it away in the spank bank, and move on.
lol loser