I'm from a tier 2 city in India. I was a good student in school, teachers used to talk about me. I joined a premier engineering college. This is when things started falling apart. CGPA is one of the lowest. People hated me for a lot of things. Graduated somehow and got placed at a decent company. Here I am 30 yo(I tell people I'm 29), no significant other and a couple failed relationships which were doomed from beginning, preparing for a job every year with no end in sight. What the fuck am I supposed to do in life to feel content. Tc:80 lpa #life360
You have to find meaning to your actions. After saving enough you can give yourself chance to think and explore what makes you happy If you marry , most of the direction in your life is somewhat set , so try giving yourself a shot before that.
There is lot to unpack here, I don't know you or neither this is a great platform for such discussion. But here are my 2 cents: 1. Stop seeking approval or caring what others think. 2. DELAY marriage as much as you can. 3. Stay away from social media/LinkedIn. Staying happy is an art. Find the little things you care about.
I posted here since it's anonymous and have similar people, no other platform I can think of. Your suggestions make sense
All depends on whom you are comparing with. You can compare with me and be happy with earning 4 times more while being few years younger. Or you can compare with someone who is happily married, earns more than you, works at better company. Your decision.
What's your networth? Have you considered following financial independence path so that you get time to pursue other interests?
Around 2 cr minus half of it in loan. Trying that, but i don't see how having more time Or little more money will help
TC breakup? Try arrange marriage bro, this TC will definitely fetch you some good matches.
Go to Therapy or Psychiatrist. Might help you feel better
Arranged marriage?