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Is something wrong with me? I’ve had crushes on 3 coworkers this year. I haven’t acted on it. I’m married with a kid and love my spouse and kid. But I get these silly crushes. Until this year, I never had a crush on a coworker.
Male or female?
Why do you ask?
^Why dodge the question?
Female
What makes them attractive?
Good looking. Smart. Hot. Funny.
Increase your libido and get frequent with your spouse.
I prescribe more intimacy with your spouse. Enough to make you look forward to seeing them through the day
What is a crush for you, what do you feel exactly? Like seriously a Disney's "omg I'm in love" or just "hm he's kinda hot"?
More like they are hot. Funny. Smart. Do not love them, just attracted to them.
Been on this team for a year. Many younger women than my previous teams.
How is intimacy level with spouse now?
Not super great but not bad either. Sex with her probably every 3 weeks.
“not bad either” > every 3 weeks 🤔
Kindly be productive at work, not reproductive !
even though your head and heart understand she is the only one for you, there is still a small part that even a commitment can not tame. there is a part of your thought creation that you can not control. so, it’s all about reacting to it. I think if you start doing all the things that initially made you love your wife, and verbally telling her all the things you love about her, that things will get much better. we don’t always tell others the sweetest things we feel, or we don’t tell them how the way they do certain small things feels sentimental and attractive. you could try to find these adorable feelings again, and tell her.
Crushes are harmless if you don’t act on them/act creepy at work. I am sure your wife has five of her own at work.
Rub one out before going to work.
Rub one out after coming from work
Rub one out during work... While maintaining eye contact with said crush.