33 year old virgin, are there meds that can make me (personality) attractive to women?
Serious shit, no troll here. tldr: Can meds make me more happy and less of an asshole so that women will like me more? I'm a 33 year old virgin and have never been in a relationship before. Having nobody is starting to be a hole in my life. I've been reading a lot about relationships and why I'm so bad with women. My current theory is that my personality is such a turn off that I can't pass basic filters even though I have many good qualities (intelligence, humor, resilience, can get shit done). In short - I have a female mentality when it comes to dating. I have never learned how to get a girl. Never did that in high school and college and even later on in life. - I have mommy/daddy issues and I have not experienced love before. I get no hugs. Growing up all the adult relationship I've seen is fucked up and divorced. I'm also very adverse to being hurt so I've actively sought not to be hurt by not having a relationship. - Because of reasons above I come across as being cranky, grumpy, maybe bitter. I'm also very petty and calculative. I like things my way. I don't actively express these traits normally, but now I think there is alot of bleed through. - I'm stuck in a never-ending negative feedback loop. I have this fantasy one day someone I love will drop in my lap and I'll be happy. But since I have nobody, I can't be happy, and so I'm always angry. - I don't drink, get high, dance, or party. I'm quite anti social. I think I have this fucked up thinking that I cannot be happy and enjoy myself. I don't know why. I'm always unhappy or dissatisfied over something. I don't like to be happy but I want to be. Seriously how fucked up am I? Because of this long shit list I come across as being grumpy/angry/unfriendly and I only learned this week women seek happy socially adjusted mates. So I'm fucked. I want to change but I don't know how to. Is there a happy pill I can take to help with behaviorial changes? We're talking about 3 decades of history here, so it's going to be hard Thanks.
Go to therapy and yeah it's possible medication and therapy may help you.
Therapy for sure. Making changes can take a lot of work.
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Therapy, plus maybe what the previous comment suggested too.
:( I have some of these issues. I think your first step is seeking a combination of psychiatrist and a good therapist... also recognize this is not your fault...
Exercise and weed
First step is to pay for it and lose your label.
That is a beta move. Very sad. Become alpha and have the women begging for it
OMG!!! "Begging for it"???? Google@, you're an idiot and imaginative.
self-help books helped me a bunch.
The only self-help book that is decent is How to Win Friends and Influence People, everything else is trash.
I liked the 7 habits book for teens when I was in high school
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Microdosing at breakfast tho !
This is a horrible idea for someone who’s currently is worried about their isolation and childhood history. 8 more hours thinking of this same topic alone in a more malleable mental state will do him harm.