Hi everyone, I’m looking for advice on choosing a partner for a long term relationship. I’ve been dating girls in open relationships and I am at a point where I need to decide to be exclusively dating one person. I’m unable to decide because both girls have good and bad treats. Girl #1: Mature and considerate. Has more common hobbies. We don’t argue as much cuz she’s chill. Gets along with my friends and more social. A little chubby so I’m less attracted to her. Slight communication problem due to some language barrier. Cannot live together due to work locations for the next couple years. Girl #2 More attractive. Able to help me with work. Flexible with living situation so she can move in. Very needy, gets mad if I don’t see her for over a week. Insecure about her looks so she gets mad if joke or comment on other girls looks. Not very social and doesn’t interact with my friends when hanging out. Immature and demanding. I’m looking for someone for a long term relationship/marriage. Thank you ahead for your advise. #dating #marriage #relationships Tc $470
Neither. You clearly don’t think very highly of either woman.
B's positive traits sound ephemeral while A's seem more amenable for long term. i think you already know this
Phenotypic expression is a direct reflection of genotype. While the physical looks might fade, the superior genotype does not.
For Girl 1, send her some motivational Tiktoks. I used to be 15 lbs heavier when I was in my 20s, and now I’m in the best shape in my 30s. People’s bodies can change! https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTRmxDCav/ https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTRmxPeLb/ (this couple is 55 and 60) https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTRmx6RfJ/
The women in those videos look anorexic. It is not healthy. They seem to have very low bodyfat and not much muscle mass. So, to get there they probably had a huge caloric deficit and messed up their metabolism. Not good long term.
Honestly, the way you describe it sounds like marriage is not happening I'm your nearest future. Give them some life and find someone you think is too good to let go.
What do you mean you’re at a point where you need to be exclusive? Is this mandated by either of them, or by you? Neither.
I hope both of the women in your post find someone else that loves them as a whole, not something to compare with in a list.
Treats? 😂
Girl 1 all the way
How long have you been dating both of them? And how did you even do that?
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Why are you dating 12 year olds? Those are not long term “partners” You sound like a tool
Why not? Everyone is going to have some flaws. I’m just listing them out.