*This question is for serious/long term dating* Do you treat dating from dating sites(Hinge, OkC, Tinder etc) vs Matrimony sites differently? As in are you less serious and less committed if you’ve met a girl on dating site, vs if you’ve met her on Matrimony sites? Especially if both parties have expressed that they’re looking for long term commitment only. If yes, pls explain how and why? And also how do you approach it differently? TC: 120K YOE: 3.5yrs
Nope I honestly look for serious, long term relationship on DilMil and CMB. That said, I like hiking, <insert some generic activity here>, travelling, etc.😂😂😂 Wbu?
I take it both equally seriously. Unfortunately on Reddit and few other platforms I’ve heard guys list different criteria for dating long term and marriage material. That has me scared.
Ah! You still didn't answer my question!
No. But I also don’t use matrimonial websites, lol
No. Non-tech.
I am not on matrimony just yet but I take dating apps pretty seriously. although most women I've met who're on both take matrimony seriously. Maybe they think the guys there are more serious about getting married!
Dating sites are for dating and if everything works, it translates to relationship/marriage. Matrimony sites are to get married. If something doesn't work, it translates to break-up/cancelation.
Matrimony sites are the new hθθkup sites
Yup totally worked like charm!
If they do treat them differently, RUN GIRL RUN. I don't want to generalise but if he thinks that he has an OUT just because he's met you on a dating app and doesn't want to work on the relationship towards marriage (if that's what you want too) that just stands out like a red flag to me. r/TwoXIndia recently had a whole ass discussion about this - https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXIndia/comments/ljl8yp/psa_if_you_come_across_guys_who_see_dating_and_am/?utm_source=reddit-android
This is the exact thread that literally had me so scared and anxious I lost all motivation to date for the time being. And also led me to post this question.
Its kinda how most of you women respond and interact on different terms with a hot male model fuck boy on Tinder vs an industrious stable decent guy on Matrimony.
It depends on other factors too. Sometimes parents are involved on matrimonial sites from the very beginning. Dating apps are more laid-back in terms of timelines as well as expectations. But everything boils down to the individual and their mindset.
Doesn’t really matter where you met. More important is for both to be on the same page on what you want from your relationship. Then it can be on dating sites, matrimonial sites, snail mails, pigeons....doesn’t matter.