Those who moved from a tier 3 or no name companies to tier 1 company, did you start getting more dates? Do you get laid more often now?
This is maybe the case in the Bay Area where thereâs two guys to every girl and everyone is obsessed with âprestigeâ, but not in any sane part of the world
2:1 girl guy ratio? Really?
I have seen people outside Bay as well believing in the same thing, but it's anecdotal
No. Never. I actually did better young, broke, and driving a beat up yellow Chevy citation
And why is that?
Cause I worked with what I had and didn't let a lack of material possessions hold me back. Women can sense your insecurities and it is a turn off
My gf doesn't give an F where I work or how much I make.
LOL đ
I've been told Bay Area women gossip amongst each other which of their date's stock is vested and who is pre-IPO (and who to continue seeing).
Now I ain't sayin she's a gold digga but she ain't going with no broke...
What's wrong with talking about it? Unless you are making decisions to chose dates based on their stock vesting dates or IPO schedule lol, then that's a different story. This just tells me Bay area women are financially aware lol
Youâll have better luck if you have a non technical job. Tech jobs are seen as nerdy and being a VC is way cooler than being an SDE
A friend of mine met a girl at a nightclub in SF downtown she turned him down saying she's only into CEOs or VCs and not SDEs
Not surprised. The top tier of women can afford to be picky because they have so many options. Itâs not fair but itâs reality. Solution is to lower standards a bit or become a CEO/VC lol An alternative is to lie and say youâre a VC then get laid and ghost. Lol.
If this is what youâre trying to leverage to get laid Iâm gonna go out on a limb here and assume there are other things you could fix that donât involve grinding leetcode
I don't think you're that far out on the limb.
Just trying to see if there is a correlation
Your company prestige is nothing compared to an unemployed playboy with a rich daddy.
So then money and charm matter, is that what you are trying to say?
I'm saying money beats all for the targeted audience described in your post.
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