Indian women, what’a your view on your future partner having watching porn habits after marriage?

I’m talking to this girl. We have been talking for last 1 year. One recent conflict we had is about my porn habits. Long story short, during my undergrad I watch porn once a month or twice a month. In my late 20s, I got into habit of watching twice or thrice per day. In fact twice I discussed about this to my physician because i was concerned if I have porn addiction. Doctor asked me the same “do you have porn addiction?” And I said “I don’t think so, because when I go on vacation I don’t watch as not much of privacy there also my brain is occupied”. Later in early 30s I totally brought it back to once a month or so. I myself told this girl that porn has lot of ill effects like corrupting mind, not able to socialize, not letting me be positive soul etc. But at times when I have no one to talk to(she is in a different timezone) and I’m bored to death and if in a mood I think about it. I did force my mind to go out or gym, but we all have that zone where we don’t feel like doing anything. Right now, at this stage, for me porn is just time killer and equivalent to scrolling YouTube or insta or blind or Reddit. But she is concerned. She also said, she used to watch very rarely and she never needed a video or pic form to get stimulated. And she did agree men aren’t wired like that and men need physical form. But she seems very concerned about it. And I made it clear I never think of myself doing it to the women in the video or anything. I don’t wanna take society standard as my standard by which I see here more men saying “married men watch it either secretly or keep it open to their partner”. I can’t lie ti my partner and she doesn’t as well. For me this is not a big of a deal and cheating is a no go. I would like to know why women think this as big deal? I really wanna know from women pov. Thanks. #relationships #marriage #dating