Anyone ever get out of the friend zone? If so how?
This is friend zone, why do you ever wanna get out of it?
By stopping being beta orbiter or a nice guy.
My friend made a deal that he would ask me out if she asked their other mutual friend out.
Make steady and noticeable improvements in myself until she was interested
It's also possible that she is not going to be interested even with the improvements. But she would probably admire you more. The best thing you can hope for is turning her into your advocate for her girlfriends. Respecting her boundaries is possibly the most respectful attractive thing you can do. Never say never you never know when she might come back around even if it's years later
I donāt think it happens. If she doesnāt see you as a romantic partner, there isnāt anything you can do. You canāt force attraction.
Yep
This can only happen if she already did like you but had other reservations and just needed a push. If she's not into you to start with, nothing is gonna change that. Depending on how pushy you are, she might just like you more or distance herself.
Exactly. Another way to know is to ask or try to find out what is her real reason for saying No. Are the reasons something you CAN change, or cannot? For eg, a better job, location, etc.. Also, remember circumstances (yours & hers) could change with time, as could partner preferences. If you both are still single, her 'No' wasn't based on unchangeable factors, and you still feel for her, you might consider asking again. P. S. - another way to gauge her reasons might be by asking her close friends. Easier said than done, of course, but it's a resource you might want to make use of, if available.
She's not attracted to you. Get over it and move on to the next.
It happens when love creeps up on you two slowly as opposed to āhead over heelsā in love.
https://exgirlfriendrecovery.com https://m.youtube.com/user/coachcoreywayne The books: āF*ck feelingsā āHow to win friends and influence peopleā āThe art of deceptionā āSolve for happyā āEmotional agilityā Start by working out the ways in which you are not attractive to her. These are the main possible ways: 1. provider 2. good genes 3. a challenge 4. popular 5. personality 6. possible future As an amazon employee, your TC is like too low so #1 is an issue. You likely spend too long at work and so suffer in category #4, and donāt spend enough time in the gym so despite having the same genes suffer in category #2. I would assume youāre also nagging her to go out with you and so failing in category #3. As for 5, and 6, I donāt know you well enough to say. Anyway, just figure out a way to improve in each of the categories. Whatever way has the best ROI.
Yes. I ask her to date me. It worked.