Been online dating for two months, and I feel sad
Got laid with 4 different girls, but found that they all have problems. One is an alcoholic, one just broke up with her gay boyfriend, one is too needy for sex and is to easy to get, and another comes from a lower class background and admires me in a creepy way. Some girls i met were okay, but never made it with them past the first date. Am I the problem? Or is it online dating? Or is everyone broken somehow like that?
How do you even get dates in Bay area?
1) be good looking. 2) don't be ugly.
3) pay a trip to Thailand
Everyone is broken. You just have to find people that are broken in ways you are cool with and great in ways that you care more about.
“Never made it with them past the first date”. You’re describing this as though it’s a phone screen that you didn’t make it past. Stop looking at this as a process. Enjoy the experiences and don’t take it so seriously. Maybe something will happen, but instead consider the time you’re spending on your dating approach, how it fits within who you want to be, and how you’re growing from it.
That is how you end up paying child support in your 30s. Much better to think logically about this stuff and don't get blinded by the p**y like you suggest.
You must have misinterpreted what I meant. I suggested growing from the experiences and learning from them. Part of that is realizing how you’re spending your time and possibly wasting it, which should lead to you being more selective with who you see and why you pursue them. Not sure how any of what I said would lead to poor decisions or unprotected sex etc. Blinded by p*ssy? Not sure how you could possibly have concluded that.
Given the area you’re in, this sounds like a great success
I say keep trying and don’t be so critical about the girls you meet
What is wrong with the one with a gay ex bf?
Maybe OP thinks she'll make him sleep with him
I was the gay boyfriend ☹️
This guy fucks!
He is white...
So?
Practice is fun, especially if getting laid.
I would be worried of getting STD’s from the ones he described
Use a condom, risk is tolerable.
Continue dating. Blog about it. Profit.
All of the above. Keep trying!
Yes, keep going. No reason to settle for something you don't want. You will find better.