Ladies, which dating apps did you use to get into serious relationships or LTR’s. I’m mid 30’s.I’m not into the hook ups etc. New to Seattle so no friends. I would also want to make friends especially with ladies and hopefully create long lasting friendships/sisterhood . I’m an introvert but like outdoors too! TC:250
Talk to parents they will find you a groom.
I’m not Indian
Ohh sorry 😞
Just use any dating app like Bumble and call out on your profile that you’re “looking for long-term relationships only”. This will help you filter out most of the people looking for hookups. An occasional sociopath might pass through but you can easily figure that out on your actual date. Just make sure you meet them outside at cafes/restaurants and not at their homes for the first time.
Is meeting at home risky?
@Flipkart yup, why would you risk meeting someone at your home for the first time
Mid 30s and just now looking for LTRs. SMH. 10 years late.
😂 do you know OP’s relationship history? There’s plenty of reasons why someone is single at any age (cheating, death, the other person couldn’t keep committing). I notice blind is super conservative and family oriented this way but tbh if you’re not from a family oriented culture (eg most white people) people just don’t stay together for the good of having a family etc. This is like blaming a homeless person for being homeless. For some it’s their fault. For others they’re just down on luck. Don’t judge because you have absolutely zero idea
Don’t think it’s her fault - likely a cultural issue
You can dm me. I am always open to make new friends (female, same age, Seattle).
Great! I will
it is funny how every woman says "i am not into hookups" and then sleep on the second date :)
How many dates do you want them to go for before sleep ? 🤣
They only say that to filter out guys who are too stupid to know what it means
Join bumble, hinge. Put your interests and also deal breakers on the top of your profile. Once a guy messages talk to them on phone ( use Google voice ,10-15 mins call) and confirm if both of you are looking for the same thing. If he seems okay meet him for coffee / walk or a low pressure date where you can leave after 45 mins
Online dating is hard but you're looking for only one guy so don't get dejected if you don't find your match instantly.
I’m mid 30’s - a little late to be on the apps for an optimal experience. why not meet folks IRL
Not for dating but I joined bumble to find some friends and almost everyone I matched with invited me to parties at their home. 😑 I don't know what it was but I left.
Same experience with bumble BFF, people were also very flaky and eventually I became flaky too and realized I don’t behave like this in real life and quit the app
My first instinct was that of MLM huns but looking back, what's preventing dudes from making fake profiles and inviting you home. 😑