RelationshipsJul 23, 2021
VMwarelAXc01

Blind is turning out to be a decent dating app

Just sharing... Spoke to a few guys. At least 4 that I exchanged numbers with. The one person I was sort of interested in, doesn't seem interested in me. So didn't really meet anyone, but it's easier to find like minded people here. Also it's not as overwhelming as dating apps. Conversations usually start when I post something and then people comment or sometimes ping and we end up chatting a bit. Very rarely, I have taken initiative too. Just like dating apps, there's people offering different services on here as well. TC: 200k YOE: 4.5 #dating #relationships

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How hot are they on average

VMware lAXc01 OP Jul 23, 2021

I think it's too much of a double standard for me to judge someone on their hotness when I am not "hot".

Amazon totrue Jul 24, 2021

On a scale of 1 to 10 where would you rate yourself

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KkdG57 Jul 23, 2021

RIP your inbox

VMware lAXc01 OP Jul 23, 2021

That's not what really happens is what I'm trying to say.

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Iโ€™m something of a guy myself

VMware lAXc01 OP Jul 23, 2021

How's that working out for you in a man's world? Lol!

Facebook Mando๏ผ Jul 23, 2021

What? Lol. Is this real?

VMware lAXc01 OP Jul 23, 2021

Yeah and today I'm seeing so many posts about dating... just letting everybody know that it sort of works.

Facebook Mando๏ผ Jul 23, 2021

I referred a few people from blind, usually end up with decent conversations. It is near impossible to tell gender tho.

Rubrik hriefjwjma Jul 23, 2021

Are you saying it worked for you? More than just exchanging numbers?

VMware lAXc01 OP Jul 23, 2021

I mean that I had decent conversations with people. It could've led to a couple dates if I weren't so picky or rather, so quick to decide that someone isn't exactly who I'm looking for.

Rubrik hriefjwjma Jul 23, 2021

That's some honesty right there :) I like it.

Box podapodi Jul 23, 2021

Did you cbeck they are not married middle age men ?

VMware lAXc01 OP Jul 23, 2021

Haha no, they're not. I tend to trust people. And I guess you get what you give.

Plume Design oursXfc Jul 23, 2021

Agree with op. DMed few girls on blind, exchanged numbers and insta profiles. Still in touch with some as a friend. It didnโ€™t work out due to long distance, age, horoscope.

VMware lAXc01 OP Jul 23, 2021

Horoscope? Are you serious?

Plume Design oursXfc Jul 23, 2021

Yeah happened with one.

HSBC Hugs4Bugs Jul 23, 2021

I never get DMs from girls except once. Had decent conversation with her once. After that neither of us initiated conversation again.

VMware lAXc01 OP Jul 23, 2021

Hey, I sort of know you! You're a little too active on Blind. Well, girls sliding into your DMs is a distant dream. I have only ever done that once.

HSBC Hugs4Bugs Jul 23, 2021

I have exceptionally good sense of humor. I don't see any issue sliding them into my DM. But you are right girls barely does that. Time for you to make it two.๐Ÿ˜œ

Accenture spacebar_ Jul 23, 2021

I've gotten a couple dms from guys too. Nothing's worked out but it's interesting at least

VMware lAXc01 OP Jul 23, 2021

Try posting something like this, lol! [Blind] Check out this post! Big crush on (former) teammate! (Relationships) https://us.teamblind.com/s/2sbuRrqO I still can't explain why confessing about my crush made guys want to dm. ๐Ÿ˜…

Accenture spacebar_ Jul 23, 2021

I read that post! I don't really post abs when I do I usually delete after a couple of hours so most of my dms I'm sure come from my comments. I comment on a bunch of random posts so it's always interesting to see where they saw me from lol

Rubrik hriefjwjma Jul 23, 2021

How to get girls to dm me? ๐Ÿค” It could just be something very simple.

HSBC Hugs4Bugs Jul 23, 2021

Nothing is simple man. ๐Ÿ˜‚

Rubrik hriefjwjma Jul 23, 2021

I mean, they can dm a simple message to start off.