10 years of marriage
I’m 34, she is 36. Moved to the states 6 years ago. Always been GC holders. My wife hasn’t been working and seems not interested. No kids, no house. We’ve been living together as roommates for the past 3+ years. I don’t have feelings, she neither but seems don’t want to admit it. It’s all just a habit at this point. We mutually benefit from this marriage to a certain point. She doesn’t need to work. I don’t need to cook/clean. Yet no one is happy. My concern is following the Californian’s rules, after 10 years of marriage if we decide to get separated she could expect 50% and lifetime alimony. It’s a bit of a concern…
You can use three years old date of separation
But we haven’t been separated, we live together.
She’ll always get 50%. Seems pretty pointless at this stage so might as well avoid lifetime alimony
Hire a hitman, get over with it
Alimony even without children?
Yes, to ensure the same level of living maintains outside of marriage
Why is she not working ? Did she ever work ?
Not in this country. Doesn’t want to do basic jobs, but don’t have experience/skills to work as a professional
Move back to home country. Doesn't that bypass US laws?
What if u also quit job?
Rip 🤣 that’s why this marriage kills me
Why can't you get couples counseling and try to get the marriage work?
I don’t think we love each other. There no sexual attraction/passion. Do you think the therapy can help in this case? It feels like we re siblings