HousingMar 29, 2022
Metametameetaa

Can I afford 1.2m home

As title says. I want to know how many of you are in a similar situation as me. Single earner, TC 330k, 36 years old, family of 4, have 2 kids who goes to public school. Have 250k savings for down payment. 150k in stock. Rented for 8 years. Want to have our first home. Edit: we’re targeting a townhouse in east bay tri-valley area.

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Amazon macro8613 Mar 29, 2022

I would consider moving out of Bay Area. To be honest your savings and TC is difficult to handle a mortgage and provide for your family. ——- update: Folks, let’s be honest it’s very difficult to support a family of 4+ people and pay a ~1m mortgage to live in the Bay Area. A 1.2m house is also quite small for a family of four unless you live in further out East Bay or tri-valley. Look elsewhere as there are many great cities in America that have tech jobs, weather and diversity.

Meta metameetaa OP Mar 29, 2022

We really want to stay in the bay area due to weather, diversity and job opportunities.

VMware fVQL07 Mar 29, 2022

Nope. Run the numbers. I have similar financials and we are comfortable. 330K is not very less, some people do weird convoluted flexes.

Meta hhoncho Mar 29, 2022

Yes of course, long as your TC is majority cash based (base + bonus). Where are you looking though? 1.2M wont get much in the bay sadly. Btw where are you keeping your 250k in savings for the down payment? In a similar situation wondering if i should put it in a cid or something.

Uber Xbbj86 Mar 29, 2022

put it in usdc. cd locks it up for too long and rate isn't any better than savings interest rate at any ebank like ally

Meta metameetaa OP Mar 29, 2022

We’re looking for a townhouse in the east bay tri-valley area. I am currently keeping my down payment in the online savings account with Marcus.

Uber Xbbj86 Mar 29, 2022

home ownership comes with a bunch of its own problems... have a reason other than $ you want the home financially in the the bay area 9 times out of 10 you're better off renting and investing the difference in vti.

PayPal 🥜Pal Mar 30, 2022

Care to explain your 9 out of 10 times theory?

LinkedIn jb18 Mar 30, 2022

Historically stock returns are better than housing, but you have more leverage with a house than you do with your cash. If you have 200k to invest and you average 8% return yearly over 10 years vs if you downpay 20% on a 1m home and the house averages 4% return over 10 years, guess which one gets you more money? Plus, mortgage interest and property taxes help reduce tax burden up to a dollar amount.

Meta lolol77 Mar 29, 2022

Probably looking at 1.6m if 1.2m is the listing price. Searching for 900k listing seems a bit safer as a single earner in my view

ByteDance BERT. Mar 29, 2022

True but where to buy with 900k in the bay area for a family of 4?

Meta lolol77 Mar 29, 2022

East bay or further down south from the valley

VMware fVQL07 Mar 29, 2022

If indeed you can find 1.2 to 1.3 mill houses, You are good. I have similar stats, but children go to daycare and wife works. So same finances. You can make it work. Drive a little far.

Amazon unkodong Mar 29, 2022

330k for Bay Area is mediocre…tbh

Meta metameetaa OP Mar 30, 2022

It could be mediocre for some, but we’re so blessed to have a job that pays this much.

LinkedIn jb18 Mar 30, 2022

In what way is 330k mediocre? Median SWE pay is 215k in the bay. https://www.levels.fyi/Salaries/Software-Engineer/San-Francisco-Bay-Area/ This is for SWEs, what about essential workers?People have lost their minds lol.

eBay JamieLann1 Mar 30, 2022

Putting down a little more will lower your monthly payments. You can find in east San Jose but has crime. South San Jose is a good bet if you are willing to sacrifice commute time.

Rakuten rakstu Mar 30, 2022

It’s really hard to find house in 1.2M in try-valley.

Stripe xxyxxyxx Mar 30, 2022

What is your average monthly expenses?

Meta metameetaa OP Mar 30, 2022

It would be around 4k not including unexpected expenses.

Stripe xxyxxyxx Mar 30, 2022

If ur expenses is at $50k/year with a $330 TC I’d say go for it. Some of these might be my personal preference but for me 1) Having a house of my own gives a very good sense of stability, 2) real state has been and is always an excellent longterm investment, 3) having a responsibility to pay you mortgage installments will help you avoid some nonsense expenses and build wealth over time.

Pandora gringo Mar 30, 2022

You will get a pretty good townhouse for that money in the livermore/dublin area

Meta metameetaa OP Mar 30, 2022

That’s what we believe so fingers crossed.