I keep seeing this recurring theme from the men on the dating apps they take the time to set up a profile put pics and write a bio spend hours chatting with a girl and then ask for Instagram. Once they follow a girl on Instagram they no longer want to initiate anything and not even continue the conversation they start giving 1 word responses Can someone please explain why would any sane man go through all these hoops just to ask for a girls insta and do nothing its soo mindless and a freaking waste of time I would rather just stare at the clouds. Also if their using apps for eye candy cant they just follow insta models off of instagram lmao 😂? Do these guys just use dating apps to farm followers for validation or what? TC: 150K
First things first, value your own time and principles. Don’t text too much or share your social media with strangers not even phone without meeting. Communicate what you are looking for and see if they want the same thing or not. Trust me you will weed out losers and attract high quality men.
They saw something on there they didn’t like.. Or they like you as a person but not into you, becoming friends on insta is like a way to stop chatting without feeling they are ghosting altogether
Either they got options and you’re not at the top of their list or they felt you weren’t reciprocating in previous communication If you reverse your left and right swipes I imagine you’ll have a different outcome within one week
They’re losers.The ones who want to date will ask you out sooner than later. They won’t pester you for Instagram either. It’s not dating unless you meet. Don’t waste time chatting for months
https://www.thestar.com/life/relationships/2022/02/02/he-told-me-he-wasnt-interested-so-why-does-he-keep-me-in-his-orbit.html There’s this new trend in dating on social media called “orbiting”, where they want to keep tabs on you but not really commit to anything. If he wanted to talk to you and hang out, he would do something about it. However, at the same time we all lack digital communication skills. Texting is a relatively new medium, our brains aren’t wired to think in 100-character messages. While texting is convenient, it lacks the depth of in person conversations. Distilling our complex and nuanced feelings over text is hard, so people dating online tend to struggle and overthink. In general, I also recommend stop overanalyzing and accept there’s really no way to know why they aren’t responding. Challenge your assumptions and consider talking to them about it if this isn’t working for you.
Guys who are serious will ask you out immediately because they don’t want to waste their time chatting with someone they see no future with
Guys without options will do that. She’s matching with guys out of her league keeping her as backup
Omg, here’s the Blender guy again, commenting on a woman’s dating post, lol. Jokes aside tho, I’m not sure about that. I actually installed hinge last week because my friends insisted on that, I’m not a fan of online dating myself, I was matched with a tall , handsome, successful guy( which I don’t think he is out of options and gonna be soon, haha) and he asked me out on a date on next day. During our date, he mentioned that he was looking for something serious and wanted to settle down and have children, he wanted to make sure we are on the same page. So I think it’s more a matter of being serious, you can have many options, if you’re serious, you’d explore them
I don't use social media (besides LinkedIn). If I can't get a woman's number I'm not interested in pursuing her. Call me old school but IG is for the birds.
Don’t give anyone your Instagram, if you want to show off your pics, link Insta to your dating app for your life to be more visible but never add anyone on Insta
Talking from my own experience. It's actually the fault of your fellow girls. Most girls give out their Insta just to accept attention and validation. Guys know this and don't really want to invest too much time where chances are low. Next time try giving them your number instead of Insta and see the change. DM if you wanna discuss more.
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