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I know respecting your partners privacy is important. We exchanged our phone passwords so that my partner can unlock it when my hands are tied or I’m busy. I gave him my laptop creds as well. I waited for him to share but he did not. I asked him why he wouldn’t. He eventually did but I had to ask him. He leaves his phone anywhere and doesn’t care about it until work next day. I would not mind if my partner read my current conversations with other people. But I could never bring myself to read his private conversations until today. I don’t know what made me do it but I did, after over an year into the relationship. I found something disturbing. I can’t divulge the contents of their conversation. I’m just want to know if what I did was wrong. I’ll take the verdict. Is it wrong to have looked up my partner’s private correspondence with his ex? #dating #marriage #relationships
Every relationship should have space. Everything cannot be shared without context. Reading private conversations will bring anxiety to you without reasons. Refrain from looking into partners phone until you have trust issues with them.
Exchanging passwords 😒😏😣.. Give him space and you too breath.. stop being so possessive..
Its not wrong to look at your partner's phone or laptop once in a while. Don't extrapolate and pester your partner and you are all good. If you need any clarification just ask and have the conversation directly instead of nagging. Also don't let it consume you and turn into obsession. Don't listen to people talking about privacy. With partners there is no privacy boundaries, just make sure you are not getting obsessed
What caused you to want to look at his messages?
Omg, no, I wouldn’t share passwords. Is it wrong to look through it if your partner shared passwords? Probably not, unless it was specifically meant for emergencies. Sharing passwords is probably agreement to having your email scanned
There is something that made you look - think about it - was it really by chance that you happened to come across it or was it something you anticipated somewhere and now it’s real. In all scenarios best to talk to your partner soon and listen. Give yourself sometime, let your partner talk about it.. you process it and then react or bring up any concerns or questions you have.
Have a conversation with him...what you did is in the past...it's individual preferences and choice on checking details of the partner...just like you are responsible for the well being of your partner to the extent they let's you..