Can’t settle for one woman
My current relationship of 6 months is great and is everything a typical blinder can dream of: beautiful girl, great sex and we get along very well, I’d even go as far as saying that this is the best woman I’ve been with. The problem is I can’t accept the thought of staying with one girl and I keep thinking about having sex with other women although I don’t want to leave my gf. The thrill and the novelty of a new affair gives me a serious hit. I even occasionally fap to old home videos with my exes and sometimes text them naughty things when I’m horny. What do I do?
Wake up kid .. it’s 3 p.m
Why don’t you just do the needful and revert this post?
OP shouldn’t think he can revert back kindly after doing the needful with another girl
Kind regards?
This is pretty normal, read the Coolidge effect. Your sex drive will go back to normal as you grow up.
How old are you if you don’t mind asking?
this is a slippery slope. enjoy what you have
Life is short. Make the most of it.
fuck that. go for broke!
Finding someone better is a lie. It’s sold to you by the media. If you love her, marry her.
See if she’s open to an open relationship ? Otherwise it’s sooner or later going to lead to cheating and more trouble. One of 2 things will happen - you actually find someone with whom you don’t feel that monogamy is a restriction on you (my case after feeling how you describe with many other women who were great) OR you will realize you can’t be happy being monogamous no matter what - and you should actively only look for girls okay with open relationships.
I will never knowingly accept her having sex with another man, the only option is she allows me to do it but I know it will make her feel awful
So - the only way out is finding a bisexual woman and a mé·nage à trois with another girl 😊. That should challenge your game - even if you’re good.
If she is really good girl.. just don’t leave or cheat her for sex.. sex is a part of life and don’t make it a heart of life
nailed it
I ran into this issue 5 years ago with my current girlfriend. I had pitched the idea of an open relationship and being polyamorous, with pretty bad backlash. Although we got into some major fights after that, I realized that i have a choice to stay or to leave and I ended up staying, not because I felt trapped, but because I love her. That being said, I have the personality of an obsessive addict and am constantly fighting the urge to see other women. I’ve redirected my obsessions to working out, working, creating amazing experiences with my girlfriend through traveling and trips and weed. It’s not easy, but you gotta decide if she makes your life better. If so, stay and if not, leave. Try to think with your head and not with your penis. Easier said than done(you can always jerk off first, then make a decision)
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