Somehow I like the peaceful life in US, greenery, infrastructure, sophistication, teslas, National parks etc. But I also like the hustle and bustle, amazing street food in India, the fact that India is cheap and we get cheap house help etc. I am torn between the two. What do I do?
Save ur marriage and move to Mumbai for house help
OP is already going through divorce apparently.
Let me introduce one important variable: health care and accessibility. Now decide.
Where is it better ?
Better in India, I guess.
Move to NYC and get the hustle/bustle and food. Not the low cost of living though
Pay 3000$+ for rent, and if you stay in jersey 1hr -2 in travel
If you are careful about health then not having Indian restaurant or street food access is good actually. But yeah you can easily get home cooked food in India that’s a plus
Did you just say infrastructure? US has the worst infrastructure
India jao
Since you liked Dunki movie so much, maybe the best idea is to stay in India.
There is a very good Pro vs cons USA and India vid. There are a few others, its detailed and you'll have to see several to make an informed decision. Both have their own pro and cons. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=57lLQoiUb_g&t=12s&pp=ygUWdXNhIHZzIGluZGEgcmVhbHRhbGtzMQ%3D%3D also check part 2 In a nutshell you can also see India: + Accesible and affordable Healtcare + Decent affordable pvt schools + Good veg, online order, affordable food + eCom and Fintech + Family + Festivals - Corruption - Congestion - Pollution - Expensive Luxuaries - Poor infra - Theft - Intoraleble pollution USA - Expensive and inaccsible healtcare - Expensove pvt schools, and below avg public schools - DIY, services super expensive, can't hire help at reasonable cost, unlike India + Reasonable prosed luxuary + Low pollution, green nature, beautiful getaways, clean envt Some comparison of major metros in India in case you choose to go https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JZtPnRUoqKk&pp=ygURcmVhbHRhbGtzMSBjaXRpZXM%3D
Take a remote job and visit India for a couple of months every year.