I am an engineer in mid-20s and moved to the US from China 2 years ago for grad school. I matched with an Indian girl (3-4 years older than me )on a dating app and we met 2 times within a week. Now she is asking me to meet at a restaurant not so far away from her place to meet for another date. Given the culture difference I am not sure what she has in mind and whether she expects me to initiate. We have hung out outdoors so far and have obviously hugged, kissed. What should I expect ? What should I do ? Is it normal for women from India to expect sex on 3rd date ? She is incredibly fit and attractive and I wouldn't want to be too passive or too aggressive with her. I think both of us trust each other given we both work in software companies etc #dating #relationships
You better get on it! Don’t be too passive. A little aggressive and some flirting. If she’s truly as attractive as you say, she would be offended if you were too passive.
Read the body language and how she dresses for the date
Can you elaborate ?
Does she initiate touches, how passionate is hugging kissing, does she put effort in looking sexy for the date. There’s no cultural generalization here, everyone is unique.
Red flag. 🚩 She’s 3 to 4 years older than you. Try harder and get a younger woman.
I am not looking for anything beyond 2-3 months. She is much prettier than most women from my country. She is very curvy and very skinny at the same time.
Are you going to tell her that you are looking for a short term relationship?
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Whether she expects sex or not depends on her. So you’ll have to be tuned into her body language. If you’re kissing already, it’s fine to initiate that, and to ask when in doubt. But also give her the opportunity to escalate. She asked you out, that’s a good sign. Be respectful, and be ready :) good luck
Depends where is she from india?
She is from North India
Go ahead, you have the green light.
OP since this is casual you have the green-light and my blessings. When is the date? Make sure you report back afterwards with all the JUICY details.
Do you think he should give a heads-up to the woman that it's casual ?
Usually it’s casual unless mentioned otherwise
Indian women love to date. Go ahead!
You mean hookup ?
Yes any
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