Girls, where do you go to meet decent looking, successful boys? Beside online dating.... I hear that seattle dating sucks but i just don’t want to believe :))
TC
What’s TC
Are you decent looking and successful? 🧐
I think i am
Here on Blind
Hey bby
Most people in Seattle, esp from tech companies, are successful by national standards. Decent looking however...
In tech, if someone showers and take care of hygiene, that is already very decent. The standard is low
You need to be just creative, like the way you chose your username.
Put your TC in your tinder bio. The bois will flocc
Pretend you only make like 20k so you don't challenge their masculinity.
What characteristics are you looking for in guys? What’s decent? What’s successful? Obviously, it just cant be these two, because a LOT of guys are decent and successful.
I’m sure they are I just can’t find them. Educated, stable job, nice and caring, be able to socialize and be open to other cultures..is it too much? :(
I would say most of my friends have these qualities, including the ones in Seattle. Some probably struggle with last two, but its not horrible mindset or anything, but never got a push. If that’s all you care about, I think people I don’t think it should br super hard. Also, my personal opinion is couples are supposed to make each other better person. So if he lacks some socialising skills or open was go other culture, maybe you can help him ... and similarly you should look how they would make you better person or help you grow in life. I have consistently been attracted to girls who I see a potential to make me a better person. My social skills are not super (wouldn’t call It horrible either), and I have learned quite a bit on small talks via women I dated in my life.
Successful? Lol 😂
Time to lower your standards. That’s how my wife met me. She lowered her standards to absolute rock bottom and I showed up.
N how do you know if i have high standards? Judgmental
Judgemental* Before lowering your standard you need to up your skillz :p